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Studentofdeed
10-30-2018, 03:57 PM
I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
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azc
10-30-2018, 04:29 PM
Originally Posted by Studentofdeed
I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
so sad to know this. May Allah :swt1: give you complete shifa and long life. Ameen

You should apprise her of your disease. Let her decide.
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Studentofdeed
10-30-2018, 04:41 PM
Jazakallah khayran brother,
I know this all a test but I want opinion and advice. Should I still seek marriage or should I not marry because I do not wish to ruin someone else's life
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azc
10-30-2018, 04:53 PM
Originally Posted by Studentofdeed
I'm wondering on whether a person with an heart issue should be married? If a person has heart problems and is on heart medication, should they seek marriage or give up the possibility of having a normal life? The doctors told me that with medication i am expected to live a normal life with healthy diet and exercise but if things ever get worse...i may need a heart transplant. So since there is a possibility of this and health issues, should I still seek marriage? And if so what do I tell her?
Originally Posted by Studentofdeed
Jazakallah khayran brother,
I know this all a test but I want opinion and advice. Should I still seek marriage or should I not marry because I do not wish to ruin someone else's life
May Allah :swt1: bless you with successful surgery so that you can do nikah after it.

If she wants to marry despite knowing it ask her to wait till then and doing dua.
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Studentofdeed
10-30-2018, 05:39 PM
Wait sorry...I'm not having open heart surgery. I am saying worst case scenario if my heart ever reaches has that point. Right now, alhamduallah I am stabilized and the medication is predicted to keep my heart strong. Doctors say with medication, I can live a normal average life. My point is should I still seek marriage when there is a possibility that my heart can go bad?
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anatolian
10-30-2018, 05:59 PM
Yes marry as the doctors say but just mention this to your prospective spouse so that she can decide.
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BeTheChange
10-30-2018, 06:03 PM
Alhamdulilah may Allah make it easy for you and us Ameen. You know you have a heart disease but there will be people with unknown hidden diseases lurking inside them. Be honest. Be open about your health situation and seek marriage. All of us have a ticking clock over our heads. Death is not in our control. In the meantime live life the best you can. Jazaka Allah.
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Studentofdeed
10-30-2018, 06:51 PM
Jazakallah khayran again to you all. May allah give you jannah al firdaous
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