Originally Posted by smolmeows
Your iman is someone you can trust with this question. Ask him (or if you are shy, like charisma mentioned, ask his wife so that she can ask your iman). If the man you are interested in is unmarried, you should ask someone you trust to approach him. The iman can probably help you there as well or he can identify someone who will be able to do so.
For those of us who are converts, there can be unique challenges. But there are always ways.
I wish you the best and that everything works out for you.