Disappointed by Islamicboard

[Studentofdeed]

I am been noticing this forum has been failing their Muslim brother and sisters. How many people come on here seeking advise from their fellow muslims. Instead I notice people are so quick to point out others faults and mistakes. Now these are human beings and they have rights. We all make mistakes but I promise you, it is a greater sin to push someone away from Islam and harm them and by putting them down. People in this forum need to know, if you have nothing good to say then remain silent. Allah will hold you accountable on the Day of Judgement. Why be on this forum if not to help your brothers and sisters if you are just going to lunge at their throat and make them feel horrible. We all sin, just because you may be better at hiding it or had a better upbringing doesnt give you entitlement to look down at others. Fear Allah is all I can say to those people

[Eric H]

Greetings and peace be with you Studentofdeed;

I think scriptures are so much more powerful when we use them to try and change ourselves. As you say, we need encouragement and inspiration to help us through life.

Thanks for sharing, blessings,

Eric

[Ahmed.]

A Muslim should know better. You call yourself student of Deen and asking wether you've been faithful over a haram relationship as if such a relationship was halal

Ok I might have been a bit harsh and judgemental so my apologies!

[ZeeshanParvez]

A Muslim should know better. You call yourself student of Deen and asking wether you've been faithful over a haram relationship as if such a relationship was halal

Ok I might have been a bit harsh and judgemental so my apologies!

Isn't it student of deed?

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[Ahmed.]

Isn't it student of deed?

That doesn't make it any better, student of deed, I.e. 'amal; this makes him sound like an 'aalim :Emoji48:

[Studentofdeed]

Everyone falls into sin. We have no right to judge anyone. Never make fun or criticize someone with a sin otherwise Allah SWT can afflict you with the same and you can end up committing the sin before you die. Admitting you were judgmental and laughing about it is just wrong. How many brothers and sisters come here for advice and we push them away with our judgements. I promise you, Allah will ask you about what you post as well. I never claimed to be an Alam. I am a sinner and we are all. I am trying to improve myself and sometimes I would like to ask questions so I can improve myself especially when I need someone else opinion. But Instead I come here to find people who give the impression they are sinless. Never criticize someone who is trying to get close to Allah. You do not know how many good deeds you may lose. Shame on this forum for condoning such actions

[ZeeshanParvez]

Everyone falls into sin. We have no right to judge anyone. Never make fun or criticize someone with a sin otherwise Allah SWT can afflict you with the same and you can end up committing the sin before you die. Admitting you were judgmental and laughing about it is just wrong. How many brothers and sisters come here for advice and we push them away with our judgements. I promise you, Allah will ask you about what you post as well. I never claimed to be an Alam. I am a sinner and we are all. I am trying to improve myself and sometimes I would like to ask questions so I can improve myself especially when I need someone else opinion. But Instead I come here to find people who give the impression they are sinless. Never criticize someone who is trying to get close to Allah. You do not know how many good deeds you may lose. Shame on this forum for condoning such actions

Forums are public. In the public you have all kinds of ppl.

You can't blame a forum for ppl's actions. That is not rational.

I really do not know what happened to you here so I cannot comment on what you are referring to.

However, as a public platform, forums get all kinds of ppl.

It is not rational to blame a forum for how ppl act neglecting all the good that exists on the forum.

[Student S]

Yes i agree. I ask questions as i have no access to scholarls atm... but thats been ignored. I thought i will get much help instead i ask again n again to clarify things. But I didn’t get satisfactory answers or HOPEFUL statements.

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I mean answers by only few members when there are much around with so much knowledge. May Allah give us Hidayah.

[Studentofdeed]

Brother I know what you mean. It's unfortunate. But if you have questions, feel free to ask me

[Physicist]

Consider those who judge and offend others as people who also came here seeking for help, but even can't admit it.
Will it be better if they stay quiet in the forum while making the same toward people around them? Or better to help them understand their mistakes?

[Saira Khan]

I am been noticing this forum has been failing their Muslim brother and sisters. How many people come on here seeking advise from their fellow muslims. Instead I notice people are so quick to point out others faults and mistakes. Now these are human beings and they have rights. We all make mistakes but I promise you, it is a greater sin to push someone away from Islam and harm them and by putting them down. People in this forum need to know, if you have nothing good to say then remain silent. Allah will hold you accountable on the Day of Judgement. Why be on this forum if not to help your brothers and sisters if you are just going to lunge at their throat and make them feel horrible. We all sin, just because you may be better at hiding it or had a better upbringing doesnt give you entitlement to look down at others. Fear Allah is all I can say to those people

The one putting any question might expect diversities of answers and should be prepared for that. This is a forum and every forum contains people with different mind set. All the people can't be same neither in their school of thoughts nor in their answering capabilities. The questioner should read all the answers and should go for the best one that appeals to his or her inner soul while the rest should be ignored. This is very wrong to think negative about any forum, but yes the people with knowledge should always come forward.
Stay blessed.

[manofIslam]

My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam,

Yes: but there's no excuse for rudeness or arrogance, or for condemning or judgemental comments!! Don't forget that as Muslims we should never become smug or conceited! Allah (SWT) does not tolerated that sort of behaviour!!

So we really should be trying very hard to be kind and helpful and loving towards our fellow Muslim Brothers and Sisters!

So let's enjoy this well-run and well-organised Forum: it's certainly one of the best Forums I've seen.

[Umm Abed]

Point out my sin, and I will be thankful :)