04-23-2019, 03:08 PM
After I realized how much stuff I had that day, I’ve taken measures to keep myself from falling into the cycle again:Reply
1- Avoiding malls unless its necessary. Malls are designed to make us buy things and window displays are meant to lure us in. You can keep yourself from the temptation by not putting yourself in that situation.
2- When you get something, give something. It is so easy to forget how much stuff we have piled in our homes. It is only when you move or travel that this realization comes. When you buy something, find something else to give as sadaqah (charity) or give it to a sibling or a friend.
3- Ask yourself if this item will bring you closer to Allah or if it will benefit you after you die. Do you really need it? Most of the time, the answer is no.
4- Stick with people who don’t remind you of at-takathur, the competition to see who can get the best. Surround yourself with friends who compete with you in good deeds instead.
5- Keep it simple. The Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) said to be in this world as a traveler. We’ve all seen those poor souls at the airports struggling to carry and lugging around way too much luggage. Don’t be one of them.
6- Go to a developing country and see how the vast majority of humanity lives. If you can’t go, then read the World News. I’ve never witnessed poverty like I saw in Egypt. I felt disgusted in myself and in our culture for how wasteful and ungrateful we are, while they were so thankful for the simple piece of bread they were able to have for dinner.
7- Read the biography of the Prophet(Peace be Upon Him) and the lives of the Companions and righteous and see how they lived. We may not be able to live how they lived, but we can be as simple as they were in our own way. The Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) said, “Do you not hear? Do you not hear? Simplicity (in life) is part of Faith, simplicity is part of Faith.”
8- Count your blessings. Literally. Reflect on how much you have, and how much Allah Ta’ala has given you…and how much you given to Him.
9– Try not to be wasteful, and teach any young ones around you not to be wasteful. Be it with food or even when taking notes. Why leave a whole page blank when it can be used? Allah Ta'ala says, “and eat and drink but waste not by extravagance, certainly He likes not those who waste by extravagance.” (7:31)
10- Focus on the hereafter, and Allah will give you the dunya. The Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) said, “For the ones whose concern is this world Allah will scatter his affair, and place poverty between his two eyes. And he will not get from the world except what is written for him. And for the one whose intention is the hereafter Allah will gather for him his affair and place contentment in his heart, and the world will come to him willingly.”
11- Ask Allah (Glorified is He) to make you content with what you have, and to make His Pleasure your goal. Ask Him to make you among those who are grateful and patient, and among those who race in good deeds and not of those who race in amassing possessions. You will realize that contentment is the real treasure.
If these tips aren’t enough to help you, then think of the last ayah of Surah At-Takathur:
ثُمَّ لَتُسْأَلُنَّ يَوْمَئِذٍ عَنِ النَّعِيمِ
Then, on that Day, you shall be asked about the delight (you indulged in, in this world)!
Can you imagine standing in front of Allah, Lord of all that exists, and being asked about the stuff we spoiled ourselves with?
Free yourself now from the shackles of Dollar Bill, before your time is up and your belongings will be left for someone else to sort through.
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