Wasa wasa of divorce

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum.
I've read in a book that if any person says that if he marries
Any girl she will get talaq. Then if he really marries one talaq occurs.
So he has to remarry to continue the relationship. If he marries another girl she too gets one talaq.
I wanted to know if this is true.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum.
I want to know that Can a women give conditional divorce in islam?

[moinudin]

و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

The wife can request a divorce in the precense of a judge. For this to be possible, the husband must be unbearable, which can include: falling short on maintenance, inflicting injuries (can be verbal), prolonged absence or if he's incarcerated long term.

I am unsure if the wife can make the divorce conditional. Since you would require a judge, it would be best to ask them.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if anyone gets wasawasa about any condition of talaq specially any conditional talaq but doesn't want to do so and worries about it. Will the talaq be applicable if he does so?

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[فصيح الياسين]

Walaikumasalam

I get too. And may be according to my opinion many married males get that too.

Fact is i dont care about it and and never speak those words which devil is filling me up with it.

So till you do not speak no worries. Even the idiot devil gives you waswas of your beliefs and allah too which are most worst than the talaq waswasas

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if any person is murmuring with himself and was saying that no talaq will occur but suddenly his voice becomes weak and he doesn't hear the No word in this time he just could hear the rest. But immediately he again says clearly every word and he doesn't want to talaq. In this time will talaq occur? No person was present there.

[eesa the kiwi]

Wa alaikum Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

Sounds like you are quite sick with waswas
Try to ignore it

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if a person is writing on a paper that he will not talaq his wife. On repeating this sentences again and again on two sentences his hand shakes and Not word appears like hot. Then immediately he corrects this and doesn't want to talaq. He was writing this just to make sure not giving talaq because of waswasa kept happening. And there was none present. In this situation will talaq occur? Or it's just a waswasa he should ignore?

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if a person gets waswasa about a conditional talaq but he doesn't says this and doesn't want to talaq then if he does the work paying no heed to these waswasa will talaq occur? How to get rid of these waswasa?

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if a woman gives a condition on her husband on which condition islamically she can take divorce and says and writes it also. But her husband doesn't know it. Later she forgets about the condition but only can remember she gave condition. Then she repents and cries and doesn't want to talaq. In this case if her husband does this work will talaq occur? There's none present while giving these condition. How can she take back these and live normal marital life? She said and written again that she won't talaq.

[Aaima zahid]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Brother talaq doesn’t happen like this for talaq first intension and then words are necessary to be spoken.
This is just waswasa. May Allah protect us from shaitan.
And Allah knows best.

[Supernova]

Assalamu alaikum
I want to know that if a woman gives a condition on her husband on which condition islamically she can take divorce and says and writes it also. But her husband doesn't know it. Later she forgets about the condition but only can remember she gave condition. Then she repents and cries and doesn't want to talaq. In this case if her husband does this work will talaq occur? There's none present while giving these condition. How can she take back these and live normal marital life? She said and written again that she won't talaq.

Your question does not make sense - read it again.....slowly....and repost it.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a woman imagines her husband saying conditional talaq on a certain work which her husband didn't say in reality then if she does that work will talaq happen?

[IslamLife00]

I think I have seen you asked the same question before.

Why does the woman imagine her husband saying conditional talaq on something that she does (or intends to do)?

Is it because what she does (or intends to do) is haram? If it is haram, then the woman should not do it - regardless he will divorce her or not.

If it is not haram, then the woman should just ask her husband - will he divorce her, if she does it - instead of imagining that he will.

[greenhill]

Salaams.

Even if you did. You are within your rights to repudiate it within the specified time frame.


:peace:

[M.I.A.]

Assalamu alaikum
If a woman imagines her husband saying conditional talaq on a certain work which her husband didn't say in reality then if she does that work will talaq happen?

makes me miss the first 26 years of my life..

cant remember imagining a thing,

becoming a slave to a corrupt voice is worse when its given form.

if only id been good at warding off evil,

just seems like a rigged jury now.

ya seen, wal quraan ul hakeem.

[Imraan]

Assalamu alaikum
If a woman imagines her husband saying conditional talaq on a certain work which her husband didn't say in reality then if she does that work will talaq happen?

Walaikum salaam

I'm getting a headache just reading this, this has confused me a lot. Anyone else feeling this way?

I've had a headache for some time now.

Please remember me and my family in your prayers....
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon....

[M.I.A.]

Walaikum salaam

I'm getting a headache just reading this, this has confused me a lot. Anyone else feeling this way?

I've had a headache for some time now.

Please remember me and my family in your prayers....
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajioon....

Let's hope this women is not the death of you.

Allah swt guide us to shifaa and understanding, you don't want headache tomorrow.


i feel sorry for the lady, being denied your free will seems kind of extreme.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
As words have effects, If a person Says that except one person he can't marry others will that be a promise ot just a normal talk? And then if he promises that he can marry anyone and previous saying was just a normal talk then will he be able to marry anyone else? How to expiate this if it becomes a promise?

[Studentofdeed]

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[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person writes on paper intending that his wife is halal for him but h looks like n and halal looks like nalal will any talaq occur? He at once correct the word halal. And he writes it because of waswasa. I'm sorry to ask this type of question but please reply kindly.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person intends to sing to his wife that she is not perfectly wrong for him but mistakenly he says that she is perfectly wrong for him which is the lyrics and later he says, that's why it's so hard to leave intending that he won't leave her. Is that a divorce? Later he said that she is not wrong for him.

[Alpha Dude]

Wa alaykum salam,

Nalal is not a word. Even if you intentionally wrote nalal, that would not make a talaq.

You are overthinking.

The best way to overcome these waswas is to ignore them. Don't give them any opportunity to fester.

[Alpha Dude]

No, it's not a divorce. Don't overthink.

You should spend time doing dhikr of Allah. The more you remember him, the less these shaytanic waswas will affect you.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person gets waswasa about zihar and he doesn't want to divorce her wife, and if he swears by Allah that he and his wife has only spouse and marital relationship and no other relationships (paused for a while) except marital. Then after sometime he forgets that if he said no other relationship in world or no relationship in world. He again swore and said they only have marital relationship.
In this situation will any talaq occur if he said the 2nd sentence (no relationship in the world although after a while he said except marital)? And in 1st sentence (no other relationship) will talaq occur?

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person says that he has done a thing and suddenly divorce word comes to his mind will that count as divorce? He has no intention of divorce. And then he clearly said that it was not divorce.
If he says that he did not divorce but while saying divorce in his mind comes he divorced is that divorce?

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I'm sorry to ask this question but please kindly reply.
If a person is making dua for something and while he says Ameen then divorce word comes to his mind then he again says Ameen and again divorce word comes to his mind. Is that count as divorce or just waswas?

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person writes and says that no talaq is happening. So, using divorce words in sentence does it constitute any divorce?

[HowManyMore]

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/7229...rce-in-writing

Divorce in Writing - Islam Question & Answer ...

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
If a person writes that " no divorce is not happening " and his intention is not to give divorce. But while writing these if suddenly comes to his mind that he is giving divorce. But he utters that he is not giving.
Then is this becomes a divorce?

[Alpha Dude]

Wa alaykum salam,

No it doesn't.

Brother, let go. You have created numerous threads in the same topic. I understand that you have some kind of difficulty in this issue but try to ignore these thoughts.

Firstly, there is no need to write such a letter in the first place. Don't do it again. Secondly, ignore your fleeting thoughts. You seem to be plagued by them. The more you pay attention to them, the more you will be consumed by them. Ignore them and let them go away. Even if you get the worst of the worst thought in the world or you have a fleeting thought that you have divorced your wife, it doesn't make it real.

Also, I have mentioned in one of your previous threads that you should look to increase your dhikr. The more you remember Allah, the less you will be affected by shaytanic whispers and uncoordinated fleeting thoughts of this nature.

May Allah make things easy for you. Aameen

[HowManyMore]

Wa alaikum Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

Sounds like you are quite sick with waswas
Try to ignore it

To put it in a more appropriate manner it seems they are suffering of intrusive thoughts. Trying to ignore them is a whole other topic.

[HowManyMore]

The best way to overcome these waswas is to ignore them. Don't give them any opportunity to fester.

The best way is to see a doctor. They cannot be simply ignored. If they could be they would be.

[HowManyMore]

Brother should see a doctor. OCD can make a life a living hell.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
I'm sorry to ask this question but please help by replying this.
If a person intends to say to his wife that " you are not haram and you are halal." But while saying he said " you are n( then he pauses and doesn't want to say in that way then he wants to say you are halal) and said halal. Thus the sentence becomes you are n halal.
Is that a divorce?

[Alpha Dude]

The best way is to see a doctor. They cannot be simply ignored. If they could be they would be.

You are right. I stand corrected.

Please see a doctor or therapist at once.

[Alpha Dude]

You are suffering from intrusive thoughts. Please see a doctor for treatment.

[pmjHossain]

Assalamu alaikum
Sorry for asking this question but can't find relief. Please reply.
If a person gets waswas about a conditional divorce but for resistance he thinks he will never give and his wife will be halal. Then for highlighting he says loudly "No, Never. She's only halal."
Is this any kind of divorce as before saying No, Never he thought she is halal? He later clearly said that she is halal.

[HowManyMore]

Assalamu alaikum
Sorry for asking this question but can't find relief. Please reply.
If a person gets waswas about a conditional divorce but for resistance he thinks he will never give and his wife will be halal. Then for highlighting he says loudly "No, Never. She's only halal."
Is this any kind of divorce as before saying No, Never he thought she is halal? He later clearly said that she is halal.

It's okay, brother, but you need the help of a doctor. These thoughts of yours are not rational. We cannot help you. The poblem is not in this what you're asking, the problem is in your mind. It can be helped, but you need a doctor for that.

[MazharShafiq]

It's okay, brother, but you need the help of a doctor. These thoughts of yours are not rational. We cannot help you. The poblem is not in this what you're asking, the problem is in your mind. It can be helped, but you need a doctor for that.

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