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It is better to ask about yourself your and her parents and local mufti and family advisor.
My basic opinion below. Allah knows best.
It is the ordinary money for her expenses and maybe for common like food, furniture etc.
She has her expenses and she is maybe shy to ask for everything, like excuse mr if it is inconvinient bedroom clothing, cosmetics etc.
You give her the fixed amount and you do not want anymore?
She works also and does not do the homework, that you do?
Please ask her to share the work on a fair basis.
If she earns and does not wont to help home, then you are probably a lot less obliged.
I advise you to be calm and talk about everything with respect, humour and love, with her and others.
Divorce is probably the worst.
I would advise you to get a second job at home. Study further and be a freelancer insha Allah. Get new courses, certificates, diplomas for a higher first salary/advancement.
Also know that woman test men. You must have your balanced fair opinion and be dometimes assertive.
Go visit both gym and library regularly.
Buy her books.
Maybe the most important in your cases is do you practice deen?
Some duas below:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sour...OFI_mljNrB7awe
And
https://archive.org/details/MominKaH...YunusPalanpuri
And
https://www.muslim.sg/articles/10-po...for-travelling
I noticed it would be maybe good to share with you a somehow basic dhikr routine (as I know, the numbers are like basic, entry (not that you right away say right now it is impossible) and Allah knows best!). To whom it is hard, then 100x insha Allah and ask Allah Al Wahhab to give you more rewards out of His mercy.
1000x estagfirullahe lil mominina wal mominat,
Rabbi gfir warham wa anta khayru rahemeen
100x Allahumma innaka afuffun tuhibbul afwa faafu anni
1000x Subhanallahi walhamdulillahi wa la ilahe illallahu wallahu akvar wa la hawla wa la quwwata illa billahil aliyyil adheem
Estagfirullah al Adheem alladhii la ilaha illa huwal hayyul qayyuumu wa atububu ilayh
1000x Shukrulillah
2000x Salawat ibrahimi
500x Hasbunallahu wa niamal wakiil niamal mawala wa niamannaseer
100x Hasbunallah rabbunallah
Asma ul husna like Ya Allahu Ya Hafeezu Ya Raqeebu Ya Mania Ya Momin Ya Muhaymen 500x and Ya Hayyu ya Qayyuumu 1000x Ya Wadudu Ya Raufu Ya Rahman Ya Raheem and other asma as much as you can.
Recite daily 1000x surah ikhlas with bismillahirrahmanirraheem
Please share with others. It will be recorded to you too if they read, without lowering their reward insha Allah.
You will notice effects insha Allah after some time (insha Allah, you'll get into superbarakah and augmented, blessed state), but we must do it as ibadah, not like audhubillah experiment if someone gets it on mind, and in the akhirah are the best treasures.
If you can, read even more salawat ibrahimi, above 5000x daily and you will get insha Allah a lot more benefits.
You of course do dhikr, duas and other ibadah like nawafil fasting as ibadah, out of joy and shukr, not because of reward.
Some maybe love 6 hours daily nawafil, but maybe after some 2 milion of the dhikr above, maybe to leave the basic numbers and focus more into reading, studying, community work, altruism etc. Do not neglect dunya work and studies please.
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