format_quote Originally Posted by
UmarGadzi
Salam alaykum,
I was exploring my son's laptop 1 year ago and I found he has a folder containing tons of pornography videos with every possible category and porn stars collection, I tried to talk to him and made him read books about the negative effects of porn addiction, also I made him subscribe to subreddits discussing this topic.
but still, I don't see any change in his behavior! *I know that because I secretly installed a surveillance program that tracks and sends me his activity*
Does anyone have an idea how can i give him the proper motivation?
Thanks!
Walaikumsalam
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Tell him that porn will make him weak in bed with his wife in future. And if he continues to watch porn and masturbate, he will be never able to satisfy his wife which is very important in marriage. And ask him, "Do you want to look weaker to her then ?". I know its a bit bold suggestion, but its really important for him to understand this.
And also, this habit wont go away at once. Usually porn addicts are like doing this every day. So initially you can tell him, its ok to watch once in a week. And then gradually try to get rid of habit.
And secondly, involve him in anything which he feels is important and keeps him busy.