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A.R.BRahimbaksh
05-18-2023, 07:15 PM
Assaalamu alaykum,

I just want to ask about brides ...
I am 16 but I have never seen a bride in my real life .
Once I saw my aunty but in her room .
So simply the confusion is :
Mostly in weddings the bride hairs are not hidden (like personally I have never heard that bride is wearing hijab ) .if someone does wear it but they also wear makeup .
Some women wear hijab and gloves .but In wedding I never heard about it .
Mostly In marriage halls both men and women are together,if not but the cousin of bride are there. Maybe I am wrong so please correct me .and cousins are namahram for other public .
Time for questions....
1 :Is it permissible for bride to show hair in public ?if not so mostly bride are sinful and it is nowadays it is a tradition , fashion whatever it is but done by the Muslim as well .I hope so .
2 : is wearing makeup Infront of namahram permissible?
3:is music Halal for weddings?
4 :if the all things are not halal so why we are just wearing hijab temporarily ? . caring about the these kind of sins.we wear gloves and hijab whenever we go outside but in weddings there is nothing like this .
Is it a sin? .

I have just said whatever I know .if I am wrong please correct me.
Jazakumullahu khairen.
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Cooper Joseph
05-19-2023, 05:40 AM
1. Some scholars say it's okay for a bride to show her hair at her wedding, while others recommend covering it for modesty.
2. Wearing makeup in front of unrelated men is generally discouraged, but some scholars allow it at weddings among women.
3. The permissibility of music at weddings is debated among scholars. Some allow it if the lyrics are clean and it doesn't encourage sinful behavior.
4. Neglecting hijab during weddings may be a cultural practice, but it's important to strive for modesty and follow Islamic values at all times.

Consulting a knowledgeable scholar is a good idea if you have specific concerns.
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A.R.BRahimbaksh
05-19-2023, 06:43 AM
Assaalamu alaykum,

Jazaka Allahu khairen..
Thank you brother..for your appreciable response ..
I just wanted to ask if it is permissible..
Jazaka Allahu khairen.
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Cooper Joseph
05-22-2023, 10:25 AM
What? do you want to edit?
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A.R.BRahimbaksh
05-22-2023, 11:19 AM
Assaalamu alaykum,


Sorry I can't understand.
What do you mean ?.
Jazaka Allahu khairen..
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*charisma*
05-22-2023, 12:10 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Cooper Joseph
1. Some scholars say it's okay for a bride to show her hair at her wedding, while others recommend covering it for modesty.
2. Wearing makeup in front of unrelated men is generally discouraged, but some scholars allow it at weddings among women.
3. The permissibility of music at weddings is debated among scholars. Some allow it if the lyrics are clean and it doesn't encourage sinful behavior.
4. Neglecting hijab during weddings may be a cultural practice, but it's important to strive for modesty and follow Islamic values at all times.

Consulting a knowledgeable scholar is a good idea if you have specific concerns.
This is simply not true. Scholarly opinion or not, Allah prohibits these things in the Quran Himself. Wearing makeup is haram. Exposing your beauty (hair, skin, body, etc) is haram. Music is haram.



format_quote Originally Posted by A.R.BRahimbaksh
1 :Is it permissible for bride to show hair in public ?if not so mostly bride are sinful and it is nowadays it is a tradition , fashion whatever it is but done by the Muslim as well .I hope so .
This is not permissible. Yes, brides are being sinful when they are exposing themselves in this way.


format_quote Originally Posted by A.R.BRahimbaksh
2 : is wearing makeup Infront of namahram permissible?
This is not permissible.

And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss. [Quran 24:31]
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format_quote Originally Posted by A.R.BRahimbaksh
3:is music Halal for weddings?
All 4 madhabs agree that music is unlawful, and it is actually pretty clear that the content of and activities surrounding music these days is undoubtedly haram.


format_quote Originally Posted by A.R.BRahimbaksh
4 :if the all things are not halal so why we are just wearing hijab temporarily ? . caring about the these kind of sins.we wear gloves and hijab whenever we go outside but in weddings there is nothing like this .
Is it a sin? .
There are many people who choose to have simple halal wedding ceremonies according to the Sunnah. There are others who choose to be more cultural and indulge in the haram. This removes blessings from the marriage. If you know what is right, it is only best to do things the right way and seek Allah's pleasure especially concerning important life events such as marriage. You see many marriages fail later on because they don't put Allah first.
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A.R.BRahimbaksh
05-22-2023, 04:00 PM
Assaalamu alaykum,

Jazaki Allahu khairen for your reply charisma .
I asked because I heard the same .
Once in school somebody said it because of my hijab .she actually said" what is the reason behind that you cover your self for whole life but in weddings everything finishes ".
I never go to any wedding so I didn't know it before. When I asked she was right .some brides never cover themselves.

Thank you for your help ..
Jazaki Allahu khairen..
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Cooper Joseph
05-23-2023, 05:10 AM
yes you are right @*charisma*
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Nelofar Ara
05-25-2023, 09:43 PM
Walikumsalamwarahmatulahewabarakatahu and Assalamualikm.
At first, I Thank you for disagreeing some things, we are nowadays following. Although all you mentioned is not a part of our faith. This is actually culture or can also called it an impact of online media
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