For people promoting single mothers...

[xboxisdead]

As salaam Alaikum,

For society who is promoting single mothers and pushing single mothers know this is one of the main destructive ideologies to any full functioning society. If anywhere in my post somehow it shows I am ok with single mother for any means, even if it is to say, as long as girls are born only, I want to retract that 100%. I am NOT ok with single mother's period. Single mothers are hara'am and a major sin and an evil act that will destroy lives in dunaya and akhira. I am not talking about divorced women or widowed. Those are not single mothers. Single mothers are women who purposely conceive out of the idea that they either don't need a man, can live without a man, to be strong, independent, or just to have a pet to take care of something. Maybe they are lonely or want to stick it to society or have political agenda. Maybe they believe they can have an amazonian society ruled by women for women. I don't know how people think...honestly, don't care. I just wanted to point out that I am not ok with single mothers and want new generation to know that it is hara 'am and not halal, just in case I posted something here that made hara'am to halal where I will end up in eternal hellfire. I will again say it one more. I don't believe single mother is halal, nor believe it is ok, nor believe it is ok as long as...or anything like that. It is haram and not ok regardless of what conditions or possibilities.

However, I am powerless, if women still do it I only pray she always gets an abortion, or the child never form into full fledge human being. Women who push for single mothers or be single mothers despite everything they know in my opinion are the most abusive group of people that walked the planet.

[widad]

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okay this is a bit extreme. single mothers are definitely not the most dangerous people out there.

there are so many different threats to society and islam, we should focus on those instead. "Single mothers are hara'am and a major sin" akhi where are you getting this from? can you clarify a bit?

"Women who push for single mothers or be single mothers despite everything they know in my opinion are the most abusive group of people that walked the planet" once again, definitely not the "most abusive group", there are much more abusive/dangerous groups. people/groups who spread misinformation about islam with the intention of tainting its reputation are much more dangerous. some scholars/sheikhs even do this, they are even more dangerous because they're seen as sources of authority and knowledge in islam.

i see where you're coming from to an extent but the delivery was a bit extreme/exaggerated imo.