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A(SMILE ITS ME)
05-12-2006, 04:13 PM
salaam.
Q. Once u get married who comes first/listen too,
for guidance.
remembering that i was told to always repect my mothers wishes.
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Tania
05-12-2006, 04:28 PM
Before to be married i say my mama :)
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A(SMILE ITS ME)
05-12-2006, 04:31 PM
And after?
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786rani
05-12-2006, 04:32 PM
even after i say mother...
rani
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chacha_jalebi
05-12-2006, 04:34 PM
parents always come 1st, no matta wot

wen sum1 asked RasoolAllah (saw) afta Allah (swt) who sud a muslim love n respect RasoolAllah (saw) replied

"your mother" then d person asked who nex, RasoolAllah (saw) sed again " your mother" den again d person asked whos nex RasoolAllah (saw) sed again "your mother" den RasoolAllah (saw) said "your father"

so he sed mummy 3 times den father so its from this hadiths, dat parents alwyz cum 1st no matta wot!! but u sud stil respect ur husband as RasoolAllah (saw) said in a hadiths "d womans treatment of her husband is either jannah or jahannam" lik d way she treats her hubby will either get her jannah or jahannam n Allah (swt) is d best & knows best!!! :)
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Tania
05-12-2006, 04:35 PM
Originally Posted by 786rani
even after i say mother...
rani
the same:) she never gave me a bad advice in so many years....
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786rani
05-12-2006, 04:36 PM
and even if she does you can always rely upon your mother to comfort you
rani
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A(SMILE ITS ME)
05-12-2006, 04:38 PM
confide?
i thought husbands are long life partners.
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786rani
05-12-2006, 04:39 PM
yes they are but there always things you can tell a mother and not a partner
rani
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Tania
05-12-2006, 04:48 PM
Originally Posted by A(SMILE ITS ME)
confide?
i thought husbands are long life partners.
In the beginning the husband needs to get my trust and if he will succeed to do that i think my mom and hubby will be on the same level of giving advices to me:)
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786rani
05-12-2006, 04:49 PM
i think mother will always have an advantage over the partner.
rani
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A(SMILE ITS ME)
05-12-2006, 04:51 PM
advantage, yep
but will u always be on the same length as her.
ur husband should have the same goals in life as u.
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- Qatada -
05-12-2006, 04:54 PM
:salamext:


What Comes First: Obeying My Husband or My Parents?
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/S...atwaE%2FFatwaE

Wife's Responsibilities Towards Her Parents
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/S...EAskTheScholar


:wasalamex
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786rani
05-12-2006, 04:55 PM
Originally Posted by A(SMILE ITS ME)
advantage, yep
but will u always be on the same length as her.
ur husband should have the same goals in life as u.
what do you mean sis?
rani
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A(SMILE ITS ME)
05-12-2006, 05:41 PM
well/
my parents are tradtionalists?
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