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I have this friend, she has been muslim for about 6 months now mashaAllaah. In the beginning she was very into the deen, she couldn't pray at home so she would go to the mosque 5 times a day, and the masjid was about 20mins away from her home.
She would read and read, all she wanted to do was gain knowledge mashaAllaah.
But lately, she had been offered her old job back from before she was muslim. Her old job is in home loans, it was only temporary part time and she needed the money so she could move out of home so she could practice her deen more.
So she accepted the job, then they promoted her to full time office manager..
Also before islaam, she had this "friend" he is muslim also but not practising. They were more like best friends, but they did do stuff together if you know what i mean. Andd before islaam she was married, and seperated..
So after islaam, she had got rid of both of those guys. Then after taking the job back, the best friend came into her backyard one night at her parents house at 3am drunk. So she let him in her house, and then drove him home. Ever since then, she has been seeing him regularly. And she does zina with him still.. She tells me the details.. but i told her i don't want to know..
Meanwhile, every other day she sees her ex husband because she wants his money... :rollseyes
I honestly don't know what to do with her anymore. I tried talking to her, I told her I will pull away from her if she continues. I told her I don't wanna know the stuff she is doing. I send her ayahs and hadiths to her phone almost everyday to try and put the love of islaam back in her.
Nothing is working imsad, she is pulling away from me and my other friends. We haven't seen her in 3 weeks. We had plans but she was with her ex husband so she cancelled them..
Any advice? Suggestions? I'm really worried about her, I don't want her to lose her imaan completely
Jazakum Allaah khayran in advance..
:wasalamex
I have this friend, she has been muslim for about 6 months now mashaAllaah. In the beginning she was very into the deen, she couldn't pray at home so she would go to the mosque 5 times a day, and the masjid was about 20mins away from her home.
She would read and read, all she wanted to do was gain knowledge mashaAllaah.
But lately, she had been offered her old job back from before she was muslim. Her old job is in home loans, it was only temporary part time and she needed the money so she could move out of home so she could practice her deen more.
So she accepted the job, then they promoted her to full time office manager..
Also before islaam, she had this "friend" he is muslim also but not practising. They were more like best friends, but they did do stuff together if you know what i mean. Andd before islaam she was married, and seperated..
So after islaam, she had got rid of both of those guys. Then after taking the job back, the best friend came into her backyard one night at her parents house at 3am drunk. So she let him in her house, and then drove him home. Ever since then, she has been seeing him regularly. And she does zina with him still.. She tells me the details.. but i told her i don't want to know..
Meanwhile, every other day she sees her ex husband because she wants his money... :rollseyes
I honestly don't know what to do with her anymore. I tried talking to her, I told her I will pull away from her if she continues. I told her I don't wanna know the stuff she is doing. I send her ayahs and hadiths to her phone almost everyday to try and put the love of islaam back in her.
Nothing is working imsad, she is pulling away from me and my other friends. We haven't seen her in 3 weeks. We had plans but she was with her ex husband so she cancelled them..
Any advice? Suggestions? I'm really worried about her, I don't want her to lose her imaan completely

Jazakum Allaah khayran in advance..
:wasalamex