would a brother mind a sister who is studying...i mean say he proposed and she was in the middle of a degree...would most brothers mind if she continued to finish her degree (whilst she is engaged/married) or would he prefer her to stop for marriage (even if she doesn't intend on working, etc after wards)..
i hope im making sense here...
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
First of all, do not generalize. I can guarantee you, we have very wonderful sisters more upon the Qur'aan and Sunnah than you and myself and yet they are very educated. Educated but know their place as a Muslim woman. So please don't speak out of ignorance.
*Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*
subanallah they dont need to work it out if they are upon the quran and sunnah becouse the roles have already been dished out so what is their to discuss further dont you testify that profhet muhammad is the messenger of allah ? do you not believe
take note please (it is not allowed for a believer man or women to have any choice when Allah and His Messenger decide a matter.”
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu
SubhaanAllah!!! We all testify!
Akhi where does the quran and sunnah say that women are not allowed education? Why should the wife not be educated?
I want my wife to be educated, and to meet my needs as a husband.
First of all, do not generalize. I can guarantee you, we have very wonderful sisters more upon the Qur'aan and Sunnah than you and myself. So please don't speak out of ignorance.
pleas dont guarantee anything allah knows we carnt even guarantee some of the sahabah so inshallah be careful allah knows the heart not you:sunny:
pleas dont guarantee anything allah knows we carnt even guarantee some of the sahabah so inshallah be careful allah knows the heart not you:sunny:
No I can still guarantee it because if anything there is always a chance of some of my sisters upon it. Personal struggles are a different thing, but u cannot deny that they will do their best for the sake of Allah. That is still being upon the deen.
And tell me this brother, how will you have Muslim female doctors when your wife, mother or sister needs a checkup? As it is recommended she meet with a female. How is that possible if people like you think their only place is in the home like some piece of furniture? Perhaps your intentions are good, but your approach and rationality is a bit swayed and I think you need to sort it out.
Who's going to teach our sisters about personal issues if they do no educate themself? We need women scholars today as was always in the past. And quite frankly no one, not even you, will change my mind, so argue all you want.
*Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*
No I can still guarantee it because if anything there is always a chance of some of my sisters upon it. Personal struggles are a different thing, but u cannot deny that they will do their best for the sake of Allah. That is still being upon the deen.
And tell me this brother, how will you have Muslim female doctors when your wife, mother or sister needs a checkup? As it is recommended she meet with a female. How is that possible if people like you think their only place is in the home like some piece of furniture? Perhaps your intentions are good, but your approach and rationality is a bit swayed and I think you need to sort it out.
Who's going to teach our sisters about personal issues if they do no educate themself? We need women scholars today as was always in the past. And quite frankly no one, not even you, will change my mind, so argue all you want.
inshallah im not saying your intension is wrong ofcourse mashallah a sister wanting to learn deen
Ok Let me ask you this brother and please answer honestly. If your wife wants to further her education in Islamic studies, are young to stop her? As I stated, education doesn't only include education like that of in the West.
And do u recall, the first university was started in a Muslim country. Whats that tell you?
*Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*
Ok Let me ask you this brother and please answer honestly. If your wife wants to further her education in Islamic studies, are young to stop her? As I stated, education doesn't only include education like that of in the West.
And do u recall, the first university was started in a Muslim country. Whats that tell you?
‘Say: If the ocean were ink wherewith to write out the words of my Lord, sooner would the ocean be exhausted, even if We added another ocean like it.’~Al Qu'raan (18:109)
and what if u arent educated in the field that interests her?
simple i will educate her the quran and hadith and thats it becouse thats the only right she has for learning ( i mean ofcourse learning up to school level or even college level the rest she has no right to do it kalass
simple i will educate her the quran and hadith and thats it becouse thats the only right she has for learning ( i mean ofcourse learning up to school level or even college level the rest she has no right to do it kalass
You're not going to give her the right that Islam gave her?
simple i will educate her the quran and hadith and thats it becouse thats the only right she has for learning ( i mean ofcourse learning up to school level or even college level the rest she has no right to do it kalass
Where does it say she's not allowed? How could u speak so ignorantly and so bluntly and in the name of Islam? SubhanAllah.
Tell me oh learned one...how do you expect to have female Muslim doctors or physicians, scholars or teachers to teach other Muslim women?
Was Khadija(ra) not a business woman?
Last edited by Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн; 05-31-2009 at 05:46 PM.
*Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*
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