You have no ideas how Muslim guys operate do you?
Let me break it down for you, at least the way I see it and the way that the brothers I know see it.
A girl that doesn't cover up, that doesn't at the very least wear Hijaab, be she Muslim or not, yeah she might look attractive and catch a guys attention, but no brother would seriously consider her anything more than someone that looks pretty in the sense of approaching her for marriage or something meaningful. I live in a place where if you walk down the street, you'll see beautiful women from all around the world and past the lowering the gaze aspect, I'm not attracted to them in a way that would make me want to go after them because there's no way that I'm going to marry someone that dresses that way. She might be a great person, great personality, caring, but I, personally speaking, won't be able get past the way she dresses, if it's immodest.
On the other hand, a sister that dresses modestly, jilbaab/hijaab or even niqaab, she's way more attractive than those women that hardly dress. Why? Because they're the ones that brothers can consider as a future wife and therefore turn out to be more fitnah in that sense than a girl that's wearing a mini-skirt - because at the end of the day this girl that's dressing awesomely modest, she might just end up being potential wife material.
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I highly doubt I'll end up marrying a niqaabi, but I'll definitely say that niqaabis are awesome. As for how brothers see them, then I've seen three different views. One group doesn't mind and would actually prefer it, second believes its too conservative and don't think its necessary, a hijaab/jilbaab/modest clothing is sufficient, and a third group which are impartial, they leave it up to the sister, if she wears it, cool, if she doesn't thats cool too. I tend to think it's a bit conservative, but I don't mind it, hijaab/jilbaab is awesome, but at the end of the day, it's up to the sister.
I know some guys get put off if they see a gurl in a ninja cuz they feel she's too "Islamic" or too "extreme" or wahever.. Yet deep down that gurl could be an outgoing person.. Similarly, a gurl who don't cover herself properly, a guy could turn her down & yet deep down she could have the most amazing of characters.. So yeaaa, I was wonderin wah are your views on this? :><:
Question to the Muslim men!
Yea, am tawkin bou Muslims here... Face reality, we're living in the 21st century & there are only a number of pious youth... Hell yeaaa it's worrisome and sad... 
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