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    “Among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility with them and He put love and mercy between your (hearts) : verily in that are signs for those who reflect.” [30:21]
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    The love of Rasullullah ﷺ and Ayesha RA.
    May Allaah grant us such spouses in this life and unite us with them in Jannah. Aameen.



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    Husband covers his wife with his scarf in a restaurant .



    The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said ‘A Dayooth will not enter Jannah.’ The Sahabah asked, ‘Who is a Dayooth?’ Rasullullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam wasallam said, ‘A man who does not care who visits his wife (i.e. men).’

    And on the issue of Ghayrah, Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said,

    “And the Dayyouth (the man with no jealousy over the women in his family) is the most vile of Allah’s creation, and Jannah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of Ghayrah – jealousy).

    The foundation of the Religion is Ghayrah, and the one without Ghayrah is one without Religion, for Ghayrah protects the heart and enlivens the limbs, and shields one from evil and lewdness, and lack of Ghayrah kills the heart so that the limbs die, so that there remains not even shielding from [the minor things].

    And the example of Ghayrah in the heart is the example of the strength that shields one from sickness and fights it off, so if the strength leaves, he will be faced with the sickness, and will not find any thing to protect himself from it, so it will establish itself [within him] and destroy him .”

    Ad-Daa’ Wad-Dawaa’, p.77

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    What does Islam say about wives and husbands?

    Marriage is based on mutual love and respect. The Islamic marriage is a sacred contract between a willing woman and willing man. There can be no coercion, and each party is free to include its own terms. The bride keeps her family name and her marriage gift from the groom. A Muslim marriage is completed with public festivities reflecting culture and customs.

    Husbands and wives are protectors of each other. They are equal partners and best friends, remaining faithful to one another.

    The husband provides, maintains, protects and is responsible for the family. He fulfills his duties with consultation and kindness. While the wife is not required to share her wealth and earnings, she may help her husband. Both spouses work together in the home - cooking and cleaning - and in raising good children.

    If couples are unable to live with one another peacefully, amicable divorce is permitted as a last resort. Mothers are given priority in the custody of children.

    Prophet Muhammad (may peace and blessings of God be upon him) said: "Treat women well and be kind to them; they are your partners and committed helpers."

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    "...Good women are for good men, and good men for good women.." (24:26)

    There are some women that Allah has made more delicate than rose petals. More fragile than crystal. More loving and caring than a man could ever fathom. The man neglects her, flirts with other women, and takes all of her gestures for granted.

    Brothers, if Allah has blessed you with such a woman then please cherish her. Be gentle with her. Love her with all of your heart. Don't be the cause of her becoming emotionally scarred, self loathing, and pessimistic of ever finding true love.

    There are some guys who are extra sensitive, extra loving, and extra caring. They are 1 in a 100. They would give everything up for their girl. The girl in return bosses them around, gets everything she wants, and leaves him heart broken. These men may not get into another healthy relationship ever again. If they do the demons inside may haunt them forever.

    Sisters, if you're blessed with such a guy, treat him right. Show him the respect and recognition you know he needs. Don't be the cause of him being filled with rage and becoming skeptical of all women.

    Men and women are meant to prosper together. Understand each other, and have meaningful halal relationships. Love each other with all their might.. It's become very common and tiring to see men and women constantly heart broken...appreciate the blessings Allah has bestowed upon you brothers and sisters, don't lose the moon in your life by counting the stars.

    May the controller of all hearts mend yours and mine. Ameen.

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    Ma'sha'Allah, what a beautiful religion Islam is. May all of the sisters and brothers who are unmarried find a righteous, loving spouse.

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    Islamic Marriage Quotes

    “The successful marriage is not when you can live in peace with your wife, but when you can’t live in peace without her.” - Yasir Qadhi

    “A perfect marriage is not between two perfect people, but between two imperfect people who learn when to overlook imperfection.” - Yasir Qadhi

    “All too often people concentrate on finding the right spouse, little realizing that half of any marriage is being the right spouse.” - Yasir Qadhi

    “Forbidden love stories end at marriage, while true halal love stories begin at marriage and end with both entering paradise together.” - Abdulbary Yahya

    “When talking about marriage, Allah says your spouses are garments for you. A garment may or may not fit perfectly—but either way, it covers imperfections, protects, and beautifies.” - Yasmin Mogahed

    “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” - Waleed Basyouni
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    “I love you.”

    Saying those words sincerely in the beginning of a marriage is easy. It is new and exciting. You are with your newly-wedded spouse and you are happy.

    Give it a few years.

    After all the bad habits pop up and after all the fights break out, it is not as easy to say those words anymore.
    But that is when those words matter most.

    If you can still say those words, after all those years being together, then you have truly learned what is true love and how to love.

    Happy old couples don’t stay together because they don’t fight.

    Happy old couples don’t stay together because their physical beauty last. Happy old couples don’t stay together because they’re both angels.

    Happy old couples stay together because despite what they know about each other and despite all the good, the bad, and the ugly that they have witnessed in each other, they still say, “I love you.”

    And they mean it.

    - Aiman Azlan

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    Successful marriage depends upon team work!


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    Rules for a Happy Marriage.




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    Ameen.

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    re: Happy Muslim Husband & Wife thread

    Women Discover Secret to a Happy Married Life
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    If you were to ask a girl who has not yet been married about the secrets of a happy marriage, she would consider it a strange question, because she is not married or because she might give a romantic dreamy answer that embodies her dreams, ideals and needs rather than reality.

    Hence, if we want to discover these secrets, we should ask married women who have real experience, because the answers of such women will be more credible, practical, and realistic. Their answers would be guiding signs on the way of those who have not yet married, and useful advice to wives who have not discovered these secrets and still need to reconsider their marital relationship.

    Compliment Your Husband

    Randa Ahmad, who has been married for 17 years, advises every bride-to-be saying,
    - To lead a happy, stable married life, you have to love your husband and understand his nature. Understanding the nature of your husband enables you to please him. Of course, this will not happen overnight; the longer you live with him, the more you will understand him.
    - It is very important to be humble with him and to pay him a compliment every now and then. By doing this, you will make him happy and lead a happy, stable life with him.

    Your Husband’s Weaknesses

    Saamiyah Ahmad, a housewife who has been married for 25 years, says to every girl and wife,
    - Know the weaknesses of your life partner; care for him, be thoughtful, and make him feel comfortable.
    - If your husband likes food, master the art of cooking to make the most delicious dishes. If he loves his family, be kinder to them than he is.

    Madeenah Raashid, a housewife who has been married for 57 years, offers the fruit of her long experience, saying:
    - Cherish your husband in hard times as well as in the good ones. Respect whatever he says and maintain good relations with his family, especially his mother, and you will win him easily.

    Say, “I love you”

    Muneerah Abdul-Hameed, a working wife who has been married for 30 years, says,
    - Dialogue, mutual understanding, love, and confidence. A husband can have his wife at his disposal just if he says to her “I love you”. This simple phrase will make her give you all her love, tenderness and care.

    Umm Yoosuf is a housewife who has been married for 20 years. She says,
    - First, you have to know that the marriage is not just a honeymoon. Marriage is a heavy responsibility that a woman has to be well-prepared for. An intelligent woman understands the nature of her husband and acts according to that nature, along with sharing his ambitions and hobbies. However, this should be within the proper limits without intruding upon your husband.

    Adherence to Islam

    Ameenah At-Turki, an Indonesian woman who has been married for 15 years, says,
    A wife has to know her duties towards her husband as defined by the teachings of Islam and the guidance of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ). She has to always remember the saying of the Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ): “If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate herself before her husband.”

    Widaad Al-Qaseer has been married for 15 years. She says,
    My mother used to tell me not to compare in order not to despair. I say the same thing to all girls: if you want to lead a happy life with your husband, you have to be content with what Allah The Almighty has granted you. If you do this, you will realize how you are truly blessed by Allah The Almighty. Otherwise, you will never be happy no matter how hard your husband may try to please you.

    Ask Your Husband

    Nawaal Muhammad, a Saudi housewife who has been married for 17 years, says,
    Obedience is the key to a man’s heart, and then truthfulness with him, as it generates confidence between you and him. Certainly, confidence is the cornerstone of a happy marriage. Take care of your beauty and ask your husband, from time to time, about what he wants from you and what you should do to please him. In this way, you will find out what makes him happy and what makes him unhappy.

    Jameelah Muhammad Ali is a housewife who has been married for 20 years. She advises all young women, saying,
    Men are all alike. All they need is delicious food, a clean, quiet house, and an obedient wife who takes care of her husband and of her beauty. This is all you have to do in order to live happily with your husband. Also, do not forget that you have to bear with him when he is angry and to support him if the going gets tough.

    Your In-Laws

    ‘Aaydah Hanafi has been married for 37years and this is what she has to say,
    Save your husband’s money, never disclose his secrets, not even to the closest people to you, and treat his mother just like you treat yours.

    ‘Aaydah’s daughter, Naahid Muhammad, a teacher who has been married for 13years, agrees with her mother. She says,
    A wife has to create a good image of her husband in the eyes of her family. Never verbally abuse your husband. Deal with him calmly and politely. With regard to times when there are severe disagreements, a wife has to be clever enough to win her husband’s love and respect.

    Aay Noor is an Algerian housewife. She has been married for 30 years. She is shedding light on being a good example and advises the family rather than the wife-to-be or the husband-to-be. She says,
    My advice to all mothers is to teach their daughters how to win the love of their husbands. Teach your daughter how to take you as an example through the way you deal with her father and vice versa. Never interfere with your children’s life after they are married. You should let them lead their own life and learn from their own experience.

    Naadyah Abdulmajeed, who has been married for 18 years, advises all wives, saying,
    Never belittle your husband, respect his wishes and allow him to act freely. It is wrong to try to discuss something with your husband when he is angry, or to tell him about the problems of the house and the children immediately after he returns from work. You have to choose the proper time for everything. Make him respect you, maintain your dignity with him and do not let him see your tears, except rarely, so that they would not lose their effect on him.

    Graduation Certificate in the Kitchen

    The famous American journalist, Norma Vincent Peale, Editor in Chief of Guideposts Magazine, who is a wife with three children and seven grandchildren, says that a woman who wants to be happily married has to realize that marriage is the law of life. She adds that with this spirit, a wife will succeed in her attempts to adapt according to her husband’s needs. All that concerns husbands is to see a clean, tidy house, a table full of the food they like, clean clothes whenever they want and some personal things such as the morning newspaper. She says that a skilful wife is the one who takes care of these needs so as to keep her husband’s smile. She says that some husbands like to see their wives in their full adornment and femininity, while others prefer moderate adornment. She adds that the role of the clever wife is to do what her husband expects of her.

    Peale maintains that a wife has to make her family the first priority in her life and to sacrifice any position or job for the sake of her husband and children. She says that she once visited a friend and saw her university certificate hung in the kitchen. When she asked her why she did this, her friend replied that the kitchen was the best place for a bachelor’s degree because it is the place where she can make use of what she has learned to master performing her duties as an ideal mother and wife.
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    Marry someone who is deeply interested in the Deen, because that is who your children will follow.”

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    Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: To put a Morsel (a small piece) of Food into your Wife's mouth is Charity.


    [Reference: Sahih Al-Bukhari]
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    Beautiful .

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    Ma'sha'Allah, marriage in Islam is a beautiful thing, two people who love one another so much they wish to help each other in the deen so they can be in Jannah together....no wonder it is half your faith. I just can't explain how sweet I find this.

    This is one of my favourite threads here
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    Ya Muqallib al-Quloob, Thabbit Qalbi Ala Deenik
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