Marriage in 21st centuary!!

Yup! That's the truth. Its as if everything's turnin' upside down. Woman is trynna become dominant and decision-maker in marriage. And there are many males out there unaware of their responsibilities as a husband. It wouldn't be wrong to say that both play equal roles in bringing about this situation. But yes, feminism has played a great part in all of this.

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This meme doesn't apply to me, Al-hamdolillah. However, it applies for future young men out there who do wish to get married in the 21st centaury, and not following the Qura'an and the Sunnah. Expect to be under this umbrella. If you know are under this umbrella, this meme is a warning sign for who wishes to enter this cavern:

"WARNING: LIVE TOXIC FUME! DON'T ENTER!" Anyone who ignore the warning sign (this meme) and enters this cave then expect to die a horrible death with no sympathy from anyone.

What warning? You mean, marrying a feminist?

As Salam alaykum wa rahmatuAllahi wa barakaatahu
Bismillah was salatu wa salam alaa nabiiyuna Muhammed wa alaa alihi wa ashabihi ajmaeen.

I have thought alot about feminism. It is very evil. It started out as something positive to protect women because the Western people used to regard women as animals only 200 years ago. Islam as we know gave women their rights in the 7th century while this only happened around 1920 in the West. However, later on the West went to the extreme and wanted to destroy all religious morals to promote the neoliberal, atheist agenda. Feminism became a part of this agenda.

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As Salam alaykum wa rahmatuAllahi wa barakaatahu
Bismillah was salatu wa salam alaa nabiiyuna Muhammed wa alaa alihi wa ashabihi ajmaeen.

I have thought alot about feminism. It is very evil. It started out as something positive to protect women because the Western people used to regard women as animals only 200 years ago. Islam as we know gave women their rights in the 7th century while this only happened around 1920 in the West. However, later on the West went to the extreme and wanted to destroy all religious morals to promote the neoliberal, atheist agenda. Feminism became a part of this agenda.

You know there are non-muslim women on TV talked to the news reporter and said that feminism women have destroyed men. I smiled because this is exactly what the prophet peace be upon him told us. He did say that if women where to rule men will be destroyed. He said in another ahadith, that if your leader is misery and women are doing all the affairs then it is better for men to be under the Earth than above it. I always have thought that if women where to lead and men where to follow it would have been a successful setting Allah would have send female prophets and would have assigned female leadership from the first time Adam and Even was created. If women leading is better for nation, Islam would have prompted this loooooooooooong time ago. If women leading is better for happier family and maintain proper ties, Islam would have assigned the husband to be obedient and submissive to his wife. In fact, women would be the one doing athan and women would be the one leading player. But....that didn't happen. So why do we seek this setting then? Tired of low deep voice people, that is not pretty on the eyes, bald head, may have bad breath..or manly breath...rough skin and masculine...so you want pretty feminine to rule?

Will, I am tired that the cloud is assigned the role of producing rain and snow. I want the tree please to float into the sky and have the tree produce rain. You know, I really love the idea of humans flying...why not have wings to fly like birds? Why should birds fly and not human...I am tired for so long that birds are assigned this feature over humans. Do you see where I am getting at?

In all the animal kingdoms they are all content with their roles, with male alpha or female alpha in the animal kingdom. Blackwidow the male spider will need to be eaten in order to procreate by the female spider. He knows his role. Even to some human seem...wowo...but he doesn't care. He knows Allah (Subhanahua Wa Talaa) have assigned his role to be eaten by the female and the female eats the male.


There is no revolution or fighting against this role by the animal or insect kingdom. Except us human....we burn with our own hands and ask why?

There seems to be a lot of confusion about the root of the problem. It’s ultimately not feminism, but capitalism. Feminism is merely a tool of capitalism as it serves the goals of capitalist goals. Think about it. Capitalism wanted more laborers to decrease the value of labor and that’s why women were recruited into the workforce. The value of labor goes down when there are more people willing to do that labor. Previously a middle class family could survive on one salary, but now two is barely sufficient in many cases.

I agree with you. Now it morphed into two powerful tools to put down any nation in it's knees. It is officially a nuclear weapon without harming the environment.