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    Salam,

    I would really appreciate it if LI members who had arranged marriage could give a list (or just one) question that they asked their potential mate b4 they decided 2 marry that person. It could be a question that was useful or it could be a question that u realize didn't really help u much after u got married. You can even post something that u wish u had asked.

    Thank you in advance.

    p/s I hope I posted in the right section... I didn't see anything on marriage.

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    Re: List of Questions:Arranged marriage


    I asked 2 questions:
    1. Does he pray 5 times a day?
    2. Does he pray Fajr, Maghrib and Isya' at the mosque daily?
    {I reckon that if his imaan is strong enuff to make him do the 3 prayers at the mosque then insyaAllah it is indicative that he would have other good qualities as a muslim}

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    perhaps im misunderstanding, but why dont you ask others about him before meeting him?
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    ...desperate for husnul-khitaam...


    please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.


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    Re: List of Questions:Arranged marriage

    Salam.

    Thanks sis Ashley66. Although I live in a Muslim country i think it would be rare to meet anyone under 50 or not affiliated to any religious order to perform the three prayers in the mosque. But then again, I could be mistaken. You raised an interesting and important point. Thank you again.

    sis Maryam11, i guess wat i mean is the stage past the part where ur family has 'checked out' the guy and thinks u shud meet up an have a lil chat.

    -salam-

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    Re: List of Questions:Arranged marriage


    i see :sunny:
    in that case, sorry, i have no idea
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    please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.


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    Re: List of Questions:Arranged marriage

    It's ok sis

    Have a nice day. Salam

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    Re: List of Questions:Arranged marriage

    Quote Originally Posted by ashara View Post
    Salam.

    Thanks sis Ashley66. Although I live in a Muslim country i think it would be rare to meet anyone under 50 or not affiliated to any religious order to perform the three prayers in the mosque. But then again, I could be mistaken. You raised an interesting and important point. Thank you again.

    sis Maryam11, i guess wat i mean is the stage past the part where ur family has 'checked out' the guy and thinks u shud meet up an have a lil chat.

    -salam-
    first one to learn if he is religious second one to learn if he is a liar i guess

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