i just wanted to say that some ppl ask u the most silliest questions! sometimes u just lose ur control .. at that point wat should u do..
some r ... like
EXAMPLES
Q 1 r u depressed?
Q 2 r u forced to be like this... never ask me y u doing this...
Q3 r u married yet.... reallly ppl can u just ask me about somethin important.. rather than... thinkin all muslim females r married at 15
Q 4 how come u dont go to school in that other state .. guess wat its for muslim....
maybe i dont want toooooooooooooooooooo ! ....
....... should u answer in scarcism back.. or just ignore em................. i mean if someone was realllly serious.. they wont ask that type of Q's
also in my other class my teacher was sayin ... yeah muslim females r depressed n we r controled... just because she read some books.. n articles n just based it on that... which just got me maddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd .... i need to calm down.... but i didnt respond because..i couldnt i wasnt scared .. but i thought i might get in a fight..n get expelled. thank god someone else did salamzzzzzzzzzzz
Last edited by arabianprincess; 05-09-2008 at 04:14 AM.
Oke I just Heard The most Stupiedist and Funniest Question Ever in my life
Its from a lady who was a ex-colleague of mine ( she looked very smart too, guess I was wrong)and still a colleague of a friend of mine and she asked him a Unbelieveble Question And She was very serious about it too, even a child Knows better, Oke Here it comes , prepare yourself, Oke she asked.... Are Jews also Muslim?
oke I say it again.....ARE.....JEWS....ALSO.....MUSLIM?
I just dont have any more words for this
(yeh the only thingi like bout that other forum is da smileys)
first of all
why wud muslims have war with muslims...
and second....
That's a very good question, I'm going to ask an Imam about it actually.
I'm joking
Should I seek a source of law other than God, when it is He Who has sent down unto you the Book (Qur'an) fully explained? And those whom We have given them the Book know that it has been sent down from the Lord with truth, so be not of those in doubt.
“The believers in their mutual kindness, compassion and sympathy are just like one body. When one of the limbs is afflicted, the whole body responds to it with sleeplessness and fever”.
(yeh the only thingi like bout that other forum is da smileys)
first of all
why wud muslims have war with muslims...
and second....
What is the second??
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
i usually get asked, do you have to wear THAT inside aswell all the time
if ur wondering what 'that' is its my hijaab and they assume that is superglued to you head so that you to sleep with is at night, in the shower and everywhere else.lol.
at uni in the toilets wen i adjust my hijaab i usually take it all off and sort it out and then start the never ending wrapping and adjusting process that all hijaabis are familiar with and the white girls just stare and stare like they cant believe that it actually comes off, and all i have to say is 'yes, i have hair underneath here too!' for them to become embarassed and look away. i mean i dont stare at them when there slapping on the lipgloss lol.
i been asked that Q uestion before... n one person told me once.. r u bald..... lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Oke I just Heard The most Stupiedist and Funniest Question Ever in my life
Its from a lady who was a ex-colleague of mine ( she looked very smart too, guess I was wrong)and still a colleague of a friend of mine and she asked him a Unbelieveble Question And She was very serious about it too, even a child Knows better, Oke Here it comes , prepare yourself, Oke she asked.... Are Jews also Muslim?
oke I say it again.....ARE.....JEWS....ALSO.....MUSLIM?
I just dont have any more words for this
lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll ll,,,,,
other Q
.. like .. so will u go on a date with me.. im like no in our religion we dont do that .. its a sin .. he says .. is it cuz im black im like no... if i was muslim probably u would been ok.. im like no even if u were muslim its not ok .. then he goes n says... let me meet ur father... HIN T how many times do u need to askkkkkkkkkkkkk anoyyin //
“The believers in their mutual kindness, compassion and sympathy are just like one body. When one of the limbs is afflicted, the whole body responds to it with sleeplessness and fever”.
i just wanted to say that some ppl ask u the most silliest questions! sometimes u just lose ur control .. at that point wat should u do..
some r ... like
EXAMPLES
Q 1 r u depressed?
Q 2 r u forced to be like this... never ask me y u doing this...
Q3 r u married yet.... reallly ppl can u just ask me about somethin important.. rather than... thinkin all muslim females r married at 15
Q 4 how come u dont go to school in that other state .. guess wat its for muslim....
maybe i dont want toooooooooooooooooooo ! ....
....... should u answer in scarcism back.. or just ignore em................. i mean if someone was realllly serious.. they wont ask that type of Q's
also in my other class my teacher was sayin ... yeah muslim females r depressed n we r controled... just because she read some books.. n articles n just based it on that... which just got me maddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd .... i need to calm down.... but i didnt respond because..i couldnt i wasnt scared .. but i thought i might get in a fight..n get expelled. thank god someone else did salamzzzzzzzzzzz
Greetings, arabianprincess
I sense your frustration ... but bear in mind that such situations are opportunities for you to explain your faith to others.
Also remember that how and what you reply will ultimately reflect back on Islam. If you respond with sarcasm, might people think you are being defensive or have something to hide ... or even that they might be right in their assumptions, and you don't want to admit it?
So try your best to be patient and understanding, and answer people's questions as best as you can.
As a Christian in an Islamic forum I understand the frustration of being asked the same questions again and again and again ... :X
It happens because there are very specific things which separate our faith/beliefs/worldviews.
Sometimes, when I find the repetative questions too frustrating, I find it better to ignore them until such as time when I have the patience and time to repond to them with love and respect.
Frustration leads to irritation, which can lead to sarcastic or angry replies. Try to avoid those!
If you feel like that, it may be better to say 'I don't have time right now, but I appreciate your question. Thank you for your interest. Perhaps we can talk some more at another time.'
And SMILE!
Peace
Peace glo
Here I stand.
I can do no other.
May God help me.
Amen.
Come, let us worship and bow down •
and kneel before the Lord our Maker
[Psalm 95]
I sense your frustration ... but bear in mind that such situations are opportunities for you to explain your faith to others.
Also remember that how and what you reply will ultimately reflect back on Islam. If you respond with sarcasm, might people think you are being defensive or have something to hide ... or even that they might be right in their assumptions, and you don't want to admit it?
So try your best to be patient and understanding, and answer people's questions as best as you can.
As a Christian in an Islamic forum I understand the frustration of being asked the same questions again and again and again ... :X
It happens because there are very specific things which separate our faith/beliefs/worldviews.
Sometimes, when I find the repetative questions too frustrating, I find it better to ignore them until such as time when I have the patience and time to repond to them with love and respect.
Frustration leads to irritation, which can lead to sarcastic or angry replies. Try to avoid those!
If you feel like that, it may be better to say 'I don't have time right now, but I appreciate your question. Thank you for your interest. Perhaps we can talk some more at another time.'
And SMILE!
Peace
i guess ur rite ... n thank for ur advise i ll keep in mind.... hopefullly i ll stick to it..... but i ll try my best...thank u once again
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