Sister Ayan, it was so softly and nicely said. You inspire peace.
JazakALLAH sis,ive learned that saying the wrong things toa person may lead them to doing something bad so its always good to talk to them the way you would like to be spoken to.its Ramadan..well almost,InshALLAH its soon
Verily, His Command, when He intends a thing, is only that He says to it, Be! and it is.
Sometimes people say things at the time of anger or despair which they don't truly mean. It's easy to say things which a person will regret afterwards. I am quite sure that when a person is in good form, they would never wish for suicide or any of those things - rather they would feel guilty for what they said in a state of weakness.
For this reason, perhaps it would be better for you sister to try and read Islamic reminders and previous advice given, and try to refrain from saying anything that might cause you more harm than good Insha'Allaah.
noooo i can control my anger. just let it out in any secret place nobody can go to (aka NOWHERE)
see when i walk around im smiling. when im not smiling my dad says i hate him. hes all "look at my own daughter how she looks at me" and im not even looking at him. and when i were in yemen (5days ago) and i would like clean up and my dad would say that i wanna get married, and when i said i didnt wanna go back to the horrible america my dad said i wanna get married here in yemen. and when i was walking normally my dad said to me "you think if u act angry with me i will just let u get married" and im like "???" and he's like "your going back to america and your not getting married" and im like "oh thats nice"
like omggggg i cant do ANYTHING.
and everytime i just turn back to allah, think of nothing but deen and allah. things get worse. as if islam is wrong...:X oops... plz nobody give that big long patience speech again.
how old am i? i dunno and it dont matter. (all thats important is that theres like 6mo. left till license)
"pray that your addiction with music stops" ... tis been a year now.
things only get worse.
worse!!
and i dont even care about music anymore. thats a problem came and gone...
and this time i get problems that CANT be fixed...i cant really say because u people wouldnt understand neway.
its like either die or die type of problems. u wont get it but thats all i have to say anyway.
and when im in yemen everyone is busy with another person so I get to go alll the way to the roof and stare at the mountains everywhere the all day and all night. even tho i do have to face my dads comments and actions and other people but still.
there IS NO WHERE to go.
NOWHERE>
and yes im ALWAYS negative thinking so get over it. theres nothing positive.
JazakALLAH sis,ive learned that saying the wrong things toa person may lead them to doing something bad so its always good to talk to them the way you would like to be spoken to.its Ramadan..well almost,InshALLAH its soon
Yeah Thats The only thing we can Say :
May Allah Make It easy For You And Save You From Your Troubles
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
that's a good start, c u think u'r weak and u can actually control your anger wich shows your strenghth
allah keeps and keeps on punishing me
don't think of this as a punishment, rather a mere test, wen you'r taking a test do you focus on passing or failing? if its the first then good u can work towards that
if its the latter then try NOT putting that word FAIL in your brain
My dad always use to say
If you're heading the wrong way, Allah allows U-turns.
meaning no matter how bad you are, there's still a chance of turning back to Allah
I'll be making dua 4 u sis
Learn silence as you have learned speech.
Speech will guide you, and silence will protect you.
"pray that your addiction with music stops" ... tis been a year now.
things only get worse.
worse!!
A year? That's it? I've been struggling with tryna stop listening to music for the past 4 years, and InshaaAllaah I'm not gonna give up.
Keep at it sis, don't let the shaytaan have the last laugh!
Hmm... This thread, Raah. Its like so full of emotions. Like you can't give up when things get tough, if it weren't for tha hardships and challenges that we face, how else would we learn to get fru 'em? Ameen to tha du'as..
& Bouh musik =X My mouf is shutted. I also have this problem, kinda a really bad one, its gone on for erm 5/6 years on/off ones. So dun't think your tha oly one mate... =) Here comes tha blessed month of Ramadan, so what a better way to find our faith again. Hope you get fru it. Take it Ez
^ sounds like u got an angry dad, a disfunctional family and a lotta time on your hands.
i'll tell u wat, i'll make dua' for u, u got this sinners dua'
thats slightly positive i think
no i dont got alot of time on my hands. my dad is 99% crazy, (source: 4/5 people that met him agree)
and whats a sinners dua?
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslimah421
that's a good start, c u think u'r weak and u can actually control your anger wich shows your strenghth
don't think of this as a punishment, rather a mere test, wen you'r taking a test do you focus on passing or failing? if its the first then good u can work towards that
if its the latter then try NOT putting that word FAIL in your brain
My dad always use to say
If you're heading the wrong way, Allah allows U-turns.
meaning no matter how bad you are, there's still a chance of turning back to Allah
I'll be making dua 4 u sis
i have no idea what u said in the bold.
aw ur dad tells u cool stuff ?
format_quote Originally Posted by - Serene -
A year? That's it? I've been struggling with tryna stop listening to music for the past 4 years, and InshaaAllaah I'm not gonna give up.
Keep at it sis, don't let the shaytaan have the last laugh!
mashallah , four years...
but music is done wit me now.
moved on...
format_quote Originally Posted by x MuslimGyal x
Hmm... This thread, Raah. Its like so full of emotions. Like you can't give up when things get tough, if it weren't for tha hardships and challenges that we face, how else would we learn to get fru 'em? Ameen to tha du'as..
& Bouh musik =X My mouf is shutted. I also have this problem, kinda a really bad one, its gone on for erm 5/6 years on/off ones. So dun't think your tha oly one mate... =) Here comes tha blessed month of Ramadan, so what a better way to find our faith again. Hope you get fru it. Take it Ez
no not really. tis the fourth day of ramadan now and i kept on NOT listening to music since its ramadan buuut the shaitan beat me there too..again.
and what do u do when EVERYTHING that you do, people say you just wanna get married? they start rejecting and accepting proposals without even talking to u (until u evesdrop ) and your afraid of something else then...
right now my bro got married and my dad left him and his wife in yemen and wont give them money or anything (AND ITS RAMADAAAAN) and he said for them to starve to death. he's willing on doing the same to my other brother, and aunties also afraid of doing worse to the guurl in the fam. till u start thinking marrage is just some sort of prison when u finally are hired as a slave or something.
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