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    i don't like interracial marriages....

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    because, you have to consider 2 things, first thing is what food will the wife like or the husband will like, since im pakistani, i know many people won't like spicy food, and i probably won't like their food.

    second thing is what language you'll mostly speak, mostly likely your gonna speak english, but honestly i only feel comfortable speaking my own language more than english.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    another i forgot to mention is, it also matters is the person recently converted to islam, because if the person is not religious and became muslim; that person probably won't be a good muslim, but if the person is religious then yes; that person will definitely be a good muslim.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    Interesting....I would look for her characteristics and quality of a muslim rather then where she comes from...tht infront of strangers might be discrimination...I would eat anything my wife makes just like I eat what my mom makes.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    format_quote Originally Posted by Alpha Jr View Post
    Interesting....I would look for her characteristics and quality of a muslim rather then where she comes from...tht infront of strangers might be discrimination...I would eat anything my wife makes just like I eat what my mom makes.
    whats your nationality?

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    I was born in Canada but parents come from Pakistan.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    format_quote Originally Posted by Alpha Jr View Post
    I was born in Canada but parents come from Pakistan.
    oh...

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    I agree with bro Alpha Jr on this Wouldn't mind either way i.e. the persons character as a Muslim.
    Last edited by Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн; 05-30-2009 at 01:21 AM.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

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    Let me ask u what do u look at,originated or emaan(characteristics etc) ?

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    format_quote Originally Posted by MrKhan89 View Post
    because, you have to consider 2 things, first thing is what food will the wife like or the husband will like, since im pakistani, i know many people won't like spicy food, and i probably won't like their food.

    second thing is what language you'll mostly speak, mostly likely your gonna speak english, but honestly i only feel comfortable speaking my own language more than english.
    I think when you're looking for someone to marry, you're looking for compatibility... And that, obviously, includes food, culture, language etc.

    another i forgot to mention is, it also matters is the person recently converted to islam, because if the person is not religious and became muslim; that person probably won't be a good muslim, but if the person is religious then yes; that person will definitely be a good muslim.
    That's a very pathetic and disgusting way to judge one's Imaan. I do strongly believe that when one converts, they convert with full knowledge of what they're getting into. And life for the convert is not as easy as those who are born muslim. If they're capable of pulling through, they must have great Imaan, right?

    whats your nationality?
    Uhm, Alpha Jr is a brother... *_*
    i don't like interracial marriages....



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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    Are u asking me or the bro.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    I agree with Alpha
    I understand you look at emaan and characteristics..right ? So no need to answer tht question was directed at mrkhan89,btw The ruler thanks for clarifying what we didnt need to know....

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    Yes sir

    Ok just making sure u know lol.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

    *Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*

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    FAO MrKhan

    Whoa, a bit closed minded, we all like different things and race is nothing but a cultural and colour difference, in Islam we are all one brotherhood, I know white Brits who love their curry and I know of pakistanis who dont like spicy food. You could always teach your mrs your native tongue and you could cook together, sharing family recipes, problem solved. Its about compromise with different cultures when they marry and mainly it is about your love and dedication for ISLAM. I suggest you dont marry inter-racially if you are worried with food and dialogue.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    Bro u need to learn tht in heaven you and your wife inshAllah will not have to cook and learn what is a proper marriage.

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    exactly sis, Sista.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

    *Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*

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    Re: i don't like interracial marriages....

    because, you have to consider 2 things, first thing is what food will the wife like or the husband will like, since im pakistani, i know many people won't like spicy food, and i probably won't like their food.

    second thing is what language you'll mostly speak, mostly likely your gonna speak english, but honestly i only feel comfortable speaking my own language more than english.

    Well you must consider the whole culture of a person not only food and language.Also I think you must consider the pros and cons to interracial marriage.What if you spread the name of Islam to the other family if it is interracial,did you consider this?Many things have two sides to it.

    another i forgot to mention is, it also matters is the person recently converted to islam, because if the person is not religious and became muslim; that person probably won't be a good muslim, but if the person is religious then yes; that person will definitely be a good muslim.

    Actually that is incorrect,I find converts can be great Muslims because they chose to go into Islam without the extra guidance from a parent or guardian.I see that many converts can be better then non-convert Muslims because they had that zeal to enter Islam.inshAllah
    i don't like interracial marriages....

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    ^Yes converts feel the need to learn extra from the years they missed causing them to be better muslims then the best of us sometimes.

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    It's something new and fresh to them, somethin different from how they've been living mostly.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

    *Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*

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    Yea and tht gives them more guidance then us...making them better muslims.

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    We take for granted what Allah blesses us with from the start. We don't see it as something different cuz its already been adjusted to us whether the wrong way or right way. But still u gotta give props to those who still search being born in a muslim family. That just means they get out of their little bubble. Like myself I know a lot of things I've heard around from people is 100 percent culture. I'd not have known it, had i kept following blindly and not really practising either. Just doing it cuz my family does.
    i don't like interracial marriages....

    *Without Allah, without Islam, life would be meaningless. If I've ever learned patience, it's because of this. Alhamdulillah...*


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