Mabrook Brother Najm..Thats great to hear MashaAllah...Alhamdulillah...
May Allah keep you happy together and grant you many pious, healthy and beautiful children who will be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen
My advice to you will be to LISTEN to your wife whenever she speaks and take her seriously. (There are many other things that I could have said but I'm sure everyone else will cover the other important points )
Mabrook again brother. And Ameen to all the ad'iyaa.
mashAllaah mabrook bro!
May Allaah swt bless your marriage with love & happiness, ameen
O Allah Wash away my sins with the water of snow and hail, and cleanse my heart from sin as a white garment is cleansed from filth, and put a great distance between me and my sins, as great as the distance You have made between the East and the West.”
mabrook. Akhee, if you want some *halal* wedding music (only duff), let me know inshallah (but they are in arabic).
JazakiAllah lets see what you have inshaAllah, i would like some english ones 2, without the haram background music please
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Congrats bro
i thought you were against getting married
I wasnt against marriage!!! lol you cant prove it!!! Na i was trying to teach that being single is important stage of your life.
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Assalmu Alikum
Congrats!!!
26th of October is my birthday o__o
Your invited!! All the members too!! :P
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Surprise surprise! I mean really lol! MashaAllah bro, I bet your excited
Ameen to all the du'as and future du'as. Ameeeeen! =]
A good surprise right. I am excited but nervous, cos my dad said she might bite if i dont do my duty
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bery gd advice sis!
Congratz najm,hop it goes well for u, make ur weddin at nyt, coz mynz in d afternoon lol
Asalamu alaykum
JazakiAllah Khair. The elderlys decide the venue etc.
Ameen to all the dua's. And please feel free to advice me and post lectures.etc. Your more than welcome ( need all the help i can get) JazakAllah Firdoos!
May Allah keep you happy together and grant you many pious, healthy and beautiful children who will be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen
Ameen and ameen to all the duas.
Dear Allah. I pray that whoever reads this message shall have your comfort, joy, peace, love, & guidance. I may not know their troubles, but you do. Please keep protecting us. Ameen.
If Allah helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allah (Alone) let believers put their trust.
Surah Ale Imran : 160
It was narrated that Anas ibn Maalik (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:
The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) climbed up Uhud, accompanied by Abu Bakr, ‘Umar and ‘Uthmaan, and the mountain shook with them. He struck it with his foot and said: “Stand firm, O Uhud, for there is no one on you but a Prophet or a Siddeeq or two martyrs.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3483)
Allah (Subhaanahu Wa Taala) does not inspire seeking forgiveness in a slave whom he wishes to punish.
Ameen to all the dua's. And please feel free to advice me and post lectures.etc. Your more than welcome ( need all the help i can get) JazakAllah Firdoos!
get her opinion/thoughts on certain matters (and your *future* kids as well, inshallah)
help her out with the housework very now and again.
take her out/spoil her/buy her gifts every now and again
advice her kindly in the matters of deen and dunya/give her dawah when needed.
respect her rights as your wife as you would want/expect her to respect your rights.
never put her down/humiliate her (and especially not in front of others)
treat your wife and your mother as co-wives, and be careful how you deal with each of the, in front of the other. meaning, you are a pillar for both them, so they are both dependent on you in several ways--->like co-wives...if you can avoid it, do not side with your wife in front of your mother as to not cause hurt for your mother. and like wise, do not side with your mother in front of your wife, as to not cause hurt to your wife.
if there is argument between the 2, do your best to be just to both of them. hear both sides of the story and take it from there. either way, be as kind and understanding as you can to both of them.
if you argue with your wife, try sort it out between the two of you first before you go to your family (no disrespect intended) for the reason being that things will get too emotional and possibly out of hand for no reason (i've seen it happen toooo many times). so if that can be avoided, do it!!!
and i nearly forgot, do not get her a co-wife or joke around that you will :anger:
as for the nasheeds, I've sent you them (and the other sis who requested ) through PM's in case people will listen to them for no reason
Last edited by Ummu Sufyaan; 08-19-2009 at 10:12 AM.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
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The nikkah/wedding will shall take place on 25th october!!! WooHooo
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lol you cant prove it!!! Na i was trying to teach that being single is important stage of your life.
lol!
Re: I am engaged :)
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