Aslaamu alaaykum bro..
Insha`Allaah you got your parents involved..ie a mahram was also involved Insha`Allaah when you met..
Make Ishtikara Prayer Insha`Allaah that will help a lot.
And also make sure when you met, did you meet in a halal way? like i said was a mahram involved, because if your thinking about get married, your intentions should be good to do if for the pleasure of Allaah, that you can provide for her etc..
Here are some Hadith you can keep in mind Insha`Allaah:
Abdullah ibn Umar reported that God's Messenger (PBUH) said:
“Do not marry only for a person's looks, for their beauty might become a cause of moral decline. Do not marry for the sake of wealth, as this may become a source of sin. Marry rather on the grounds of religious devotion.”
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"Every one of you is a guardian and responsible for those in his charge; the man, in his home, is a guardian and responsible for his household; the woman, concerning her husband's property, is a guardian and responsible for what she is entrusted with."
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
“You shall not enter Paradise until you have faith, and you shall not have faith until you love one another. Have compassion on those who are on earth, and He Who is in Heaven will have compassion for you.”
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
`O young people! Whoever among you can support a wife should marry, for that is more modest for the gaze and safer for your private parts.'
( Marriage quote from Sahih Muslim, Sahih Bukhari)
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half."
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"If Allah grants a Muslim a righteous wife, this helps him preserve half of his religion (faith). He should, therefore, fear Allah as regards the other half."
( Marriage quotes from At-Tabarani and Al-Hakim)
Insha`Allaah i thought there was a need of some Hadiths, although there are plenty of more, Insha`Allaah just to remind you all
Insha`Allaah when you are ready, you can go down and meet the family etc..
sorry if i said anything bad or wrong
Wa alaykum Salaam
Ps. i hope i helped in some parts of the question if not sorry
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