Re: i am in love but i dont want a haram relationship and i dont want to get married
format_quote Originally Posted by salumma
what do i do?
Stay away from the man you think you are in love with sister.
If you do not pursue marriage, then what is the point of engaging in a haraam relationship, because ultimately that is what you're heading towards if you don't cut off whatever ties you have with this person.
It's good that you've acknowledged that it will be haraam, and remember to focus on why we are created in the first place. Everything else, marriage, work, studies, is secondary.
Re: i am in love but i dont want a haram relationship and i dont want to get married
If you both feel same way, what prevents you to wait and marry later, when you both are ready for that? If love is strong enough, there is no harm for wait some years. If it isn´t, weak love will die soon in the marriage and then you wish you never marry at all.
If this isn´t possible, focus to your life and working and marry when you feel it´s the right time for it.
Re: i am in love but i dont want a haram relationship and i dont want to get married
You should work on having your heart filled with the love of Allah. And the love for dunya only at the tip of your fingers. That should be the difference between the two.
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