Assalamu Alaikum,

I am a college student living in a dorm with three other roommates. One of the roommates, who is 2 years junior, is very disrespectful and rude to us. He would often do things that bothers us and is very disrespectful when he is told upon.

This has been going on for a long time. Sometimes I feel sad and humiliated and share the incidents with close friends. Is this ghibah?

If it is ghibah, how do I repent and stop this from happening?