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    me again lol

    well anyway im considerin 2 wear a niqaab but saying this my sister said i shudnt wear it just yet as i will get alot of abuse from ppl on my way 2 uni on train as her friend did when she wore 1 to uni so that got me thinking
    so many question pop up in my head like:
    wot about jobs in the future and also wot about getting married hw u gna show potentials ur face???
    in really confused becoz i really dont wanna wear it and then take it off id rather just not wear 1 if i have to do that
    can any1 give me sum advice in any way

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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

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    format_quote Originally Posted by amani View Post


    well sister im sure theres jobs that provide for niqabis also.
    if you want to wear the niqab, dont think it as an obstacle for this and that, wear it and everything around you will fall into place

    that is true
    my mother's friend did that (even after marriage)
    and she did that even though she was a doctor
    dont think of wht others think abt u
    i go to school here and i am the only one that wears a scarf
    my mom also does niqab
    i also have future wishes to inshallah
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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    In the hanafi and shafii madhhabs the niqab is not wajib, in the hanbali madhab the matter is undecided and there scholars are split on this issue one saying it is while others say it is not. I am not 100% about the maliki but i think it is not wajib either.

    Only minority groups like salafi's try to enforce these things which is a reprahesible bidah as the prophet (salla llahu alaihi wa sallam) himself never forced women to wear the hijab let alone niqab, it is a personel choice.

    Just adding the above is the opinion of the scholars in our time as per our current situation. The face and hands are not and have not been considered to be awrah.
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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    format_quote Originally Posted by HIJABI*** View Post
    In the hanafi and shafii madhhabs the niqab is not wajib, in the hanbali madhab the matter is undecided and there scholars are split on this issue one saying it is while others say it is not. I am not 100% about the maliki but i think it is not wajib either.

    have you got any proof or back up for this because as far as im aware all four imams said the niqab was atleast wajib?

    Only minority groups like salafi's try to enforce these things which is a reprahesible bidah as the prophet (salla llahu alaihi wa sallam) himself never forced women to wear the hijab let alone niqab, it is a personel choice.
    wow Astaghfirullah. a bidah? when someone thinks its wajib and enforces it then they are doing a bidah? if it is taken from the ayah of Surah Al Ahzab then how can one say them telling others is a bidah? when Muhammed was ordered to tell His wives, daughters and the believing women?
    yes i know there is a difference of opinion regarding this but to call those enforcing it to be a bidah is way deep. the salafi aqeedah itself is a name given to muslims who want to follow the Quran and sunnah on the manhaj of the salaf, (and away from bidah)...
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    i think u should wear it sister..........for u are struggling for the sake of allah and that is the best of the best.......so dont care wat people do to u...........for allah likes those who struggle for his sake.......so inshallah wallahi i would advise u to wear it......and let people see how proud u are........hold ur head up high and dont care.....
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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    format_quote Originally Posted by amani View Post

    have you got any proof or back up for this because as far as im aware all four imams said the niqab was atleast wajib?
    same here


    hijaabi sis seriously, take a good look at the views of the madhaahib yourself and you'll be shocked. The madhabs arent properly followed anymore... its such a sad fact.
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    im thinking to do niqaab however i am working currently with all females but i have male parents who come to drop their children off to the setting so idont see a point, however i do believe that ppl who does flashy hijaab as one of brothers mentioned thats not right but inshallah i would like to do hijaab, it is something that occurs in my mind but im confused do i need to cover my face from my bro in laws and cousin bros also. i have intention of doing hijaab after i get married coz i have plans that i wont work inshallah. please make dua fore me!
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    ok sori dats wot i thowt
    sori if iv offended any1!!!!
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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    format_quote Originally Posted by HIJABI*** View Post
    ok sori dats wot i thowt
    sori if iv offended any1!!!!
    you havent sis

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    Hmm...




    One day...

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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    its so hard to do niqab and i'm sure there is so much rewards for it! i myself am trying to take it each step at a time, first i'm gonna start to wear black or brown hijab as i kno that the rest defo attracts attention nomatta how many people make excuses! hijab isnt limited to covering the hair or body, but its also the way one speaks and walks. i think many people who do wear hijaab arent wearing it righ (i'm also including myself) inshallah Allah (swt) will give us the tawfiq to do so! all the best!
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    1) Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Asma, daughter of AbuBakr, entered upon the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) turned his attention from her. He said: O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands. (Book #32, Hadith #4092)

    The niqab is not compulsory according to this hadith. However, I love the niqab. I sampled it in a country that most women wear it. I'm planning to wear it next year inshaallah.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Ismahaan View Post
    1) Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Asma, daughter of AbuBakr, entered upon the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) turned his attention from her. He said: O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands. (Book #32, Hadith #4092)

    The niqab is not compulsory according to this hadith. However, I love the niqab. I sampled it in a country that most women wear it. I'm planning to wear it next year inshaallah.


    theres difference of opinion as to the authenticity of this hadith, anyhow if it is sahih it could have been before the ayahs of covering up was revealed
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Ismahaan View Post
    1) Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: Asma, daughter of AbuBakr, entered upon the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) turned his attention from her. He said: O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands. (Book #32, Hadith #4092)

    The niqab is not compulsory according to this hadith. However, I love the niqab. I sampled it in a country that most women wear it. I'm planning to wear it next year inshaallah.
    Aww mashaAllah,

    All the best with that then

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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    format_quote Originally Posted by amani View Post


    theres difference of opinion as to the authenticity of this hadith, anyhow if it is sahih it could have been before the ayahs of covering up was revealed


    ye lol, too much evidence for the niqaab wajib ( i mean madhabs agree too lol come on dudz)



    all the best sis, may Allah grant you jannatul firdaus al a'la.


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    Alhamdulillah it's almost a year since I've been wearing niqaab, and I have only 1 regret about it- NOT STARTING EARLIER! SubhanAllah it's given me so much more strength, made my imaan stronger, and granted me more love for the deen than I've ever had.

    Whenever doing anything good for the sake of Allah shaytaan will always get into the way and will tempt us off the right path. Also, Allah will bring tests our way to test our loyalty to Him and our actions. My advice to any sister would be to give it a lot of thought and try wearing it inshaAllah, it only helps protect you from other evil things!

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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    format_quote Originally Posted by HIJABI*** View Post
    me again lol

    well anyway im considerin 2 wear a niqaab but saying this my sister said i shudnt wear it just yet as i will get alot of abuse from ppl on my way 2 uni on train as her friend did when she wore 1 to uni so that got me thinking
    so many question pop up in my head like:
    wot about jobs in the future and also wot about getting married hw u gna show potentials ur face???
    in really confused becoz i really dont wanna wear it and then take it off id rather just not wear 1 if i have to do that
    can any1 give me sum advice in any way
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    Re: ***nervous B4 Starting 2 Wear Niqaab***

    I know is sounds dumb but I wish I could just wear it for one day lol just to see how it is

    Sis Masha Allah, May Allah swt make it easier for you.
    Cant wear it now or well anytime soon, the job that I will be doing you have to wear trousers:X
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    ive known some people that wore niqab just for a day to see what it would be like. it made them appreciate and respect niqabis even more, it even made people feel so good wearing it that they actually began wearing it themselves.

    however unfortunately there are some sisters that wear it whenever they have blemishes they dont want people to see. or wear it on and off depending where they are going. whether its to impress people or not, Allah knows best. but if you're gonna do something then do it right and with a fully dedicated heart!
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