what do you hate in islam that muslims are doing wrong, for example
i hate when girls at my school, they wear scarf when they coming in to school, when their fathers are watching and take it off when their fathe or mothers are gone. When its home time they put their scarfs back on.. i am thinking y r u a muslims if u feel ashamed wear their scarf in front of their mates...
I find it offensive to say that Muslims who do not practice their religion are only Muslim by name and because their parents are. How do you know their intentions? You shouldn't judge people, based on what they do.
I find it offensive to say that Muslims who do not practice their religion are only Muslim by name and because their parents are. How do you know their intentions? You shouldn't judge people, based on what they do.
I'm sorry I have offended you, but I stand by my comments.
I find it offensive to say that Muslims who do not practice their religion are only Muslim by name and because their parents are. How do you know their intentions? You shouldn't judge people, based on what they do.
Either way, what they are doing is wrong. Your right in the sense we shouldn't judge people because we don't know what they feel inside.But these kind of people really are only muslim by name. They feel that because they have a muslim name, they don't need to strive for jannah. It's like they think they have a reserved space or something
Sister DeepOcean, at the end of the day I really don't think it should be our place to judge because during Yomul-Qiyamah, you will be accounted only for your sins and not others. Also, this could turn into a form of backbitting which is a major sin itself.
Sister DeepOcean, at the end of the day I really don't think it should be our place to judge because during Yomul-Qiyamah, you will be accounted only for your sins and not others. Also, this could turn into a form of backbitting which is a major sin itself.
Couldn't agree more sister. But nobody here is talking about anyone in particular. Also, this thread is purely discussing the actions which are wrong and are found among muslims today. Nobody is saying they are better or worse than these people.
what do you hate in islam that muslims are doing wrong, for example
i hate when girls at my school, they wear scarf when they coming in to school, when their fathers are watching and take it off when their fathe or mothers are gone. When its home time they put their scarfs back on.. i am thinking y r u a muslims if u feel ashamed wear their scarf in front of their mates...
that really annoys me.
thats exactly what happens at my school too...
u see girls coming in with head scarf on walking in to the toilet and coming out with their hair open and looking like they have just dipped their head in a puffy sort of powder (basically they come out with a load of make up)
this makes me so angry
i mean they do it behind their parents back
DeepOcean, perhaps but I am just looking out for everyone. :sunny:
Neelam92, Yeah around where I used to live a lot of the girl's parents used to force them to wear the hijab and they didn't even know why they had to. They did the same thing that you mentioned, but they just didn't understand why they had to cover themselves up because nobody taught them anything. During madrassa they would memorize surahs in Arabic and they didn't even understand what they were reading -- me included. Perhaps that has to do with it.
DeepOcean, perhaps but I am just looking out for everyone. :sunny:
Neelam92, Yeah around where I used to live a lot of the girl's parents used to force them to wear the hijab and they didn't even know why they had to. They did the same thing that you mentioned, but they just didn't understand why they had to cover themselves up because nobody taught them anything. During madrassa they would memorize surahs in Arabic and they didn't even understand what they were reading -- me included. Perhaps that has to do with it.
Ye, i agree with u sis, over here aswell, in madrassas children and young adults are taught how to read quran, and although this is good in itself, the children are not taught the foundations of Islam and therefore perhaps girls don't understand why they need to cover their heads when they go 2 school and c tht ther peers don't wear a scarf, so this may intimidate them and therefore causing them to abandon the headscarf as soon as they get to school, i think 2 solve this issue, parents and maulanas should explain to the child/ young adult why they are need 2 wear the headscarf before making them wear it.
Salaams.
DeepOcean, perhaps but I am just looking out for everyone. :sunny:
Neelam92, Yeah around where I used to live a lot of the girl's parents used to force them to wear the hijab and they didn't even know why they had to. They did the same thing that you mentioned, but they just didn't understand why they had to cover themselves up because nobody taught them anything. During madrassa they would memorize surahs in Arabic and they didn't even understand what they were reading -- me included. Perhaps that has to do with it.
yeh true... but in the end its the parents fault cuz the parents havent taight the kids about Islam they have just sed to them that u have to do this and u have to do that wich is messing with the kids mind and its confusing them. and then when the kid is gonna grown she/he wouldntknow wnaything about islam and wouldnt know what to do with her/his own kid
Ye, i agree with u sis, over here aswell, in madrassas children and young adults are taught how to read quran, and although this is good in itself, the children are not taught the foundations of Islam and therefore perhaps girls don't understand why they need to cover their heads when they go 2 school and c tht ther peers don't wear a scarf, so this may intimidate them and therefore causing them to abandon the headscarf as soon as they get to school, i think 2 solve this issue, parents and maulanas should explain to the child/ young adult why they are need 2 wear the headscarf before making them wear it.
Salaams.
yes true...parents should explain to the kids on why they need to wear the hijab and stuff so atleast they will understand why... instead of lots of questions going throught their mind wich will confuse them
I could swear to you that many of the kids in my Madrassa that finished the Quran don't even understand the meaning of what they read. I agree with you guys, it's the job of the parents to teach their children the foundations of Islam instead of force-feeding it to them and expecting them to understand with no explanation.
do u fink itd be rong 2 force ur kids 2 wear headscarf as den theyd take it off wen u not there, rather then teach em n let dem put it on themselves instead of pressurising them that way their wearing it out of their own choice so they dont secretly take it off. im not sure if what im saying is rong but i use 2 c gals doing lot at scool wen i went 2
The Hijaab is something that Allah ta'ala has made wajib of the believing woman however, its not the most important thing in Islam. There are more things that come before it, such as Salah, Zakah etc. These sisters could be ignorant about the wisdom and benefit of the Hijaab. May Allah guide us all,
I don't think parents should give them a choice of wearing the hijab but they should explain why it is wajib for them to wear it. They should show them Ayahs of the Quran in which Allah states why he ordained for women to wear the hijab because therefore they will feel a need to wear it and understand why it is so important.
but i dont think they will listen to their parents. I no its the parents job but when they at school or not near their parents, they won't wear it. The parents cant follow them everywhere their children go. the paretns think they are wearing it,but they are not wearing it.
If the parents explain these things to their children from an early age, they won't question it as they will UNDERSTAND the reasons behind them. But just lectures will confuse and annoy the child.
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Sister DeepOcean, at the end of the day I really don't think it should be our place to judge because during Yomul-Qiyamah, you will be accounted only for your sins and not others. Also, this could turn into a form of backbitting which is a major sin itself.
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