just listen to them. not neccesarily in what they tell you to do, but even with thier stories that you have no interest in, and that aren't really relevant to you. just sit there and give them your full attention.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
Serious?? You can't remember anything you've done that has made them happy? Wow.
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if someone works out how to make em happy let me kno, i got her loadsa stuff and she dissed me for spending money lol
LOL My mother would react the same way.
Brother, you know your mother and father better than us, lol, shouldn't you know? Everybody is different, so I can't give much advice, other than hugging once every blue moon makes many parents go: (heart) + (hug) = , which is kinda cute.
“If only I had checked myself”
—
Guy who wrecked himself
True leaders don't create followers...
.... They create new leaders.
.Getting good test results (one of the biggest motivators for my parents :P)
.Telling them jokes.
.Being good, polite, praying, reading Qu'ran etc., that makes them proud .
And I can't think of anymore, Insha'Allah I will, soon .
^ well she gets happy when you remember the lil things, like gettin her the milk she likes, or gettin her biscuits when its running out etc etc.
i guess its paying close attention to her special lil things which makes her happy...
brother, even if on the outside she dosn't seem to appreciate it, trust me, i think on the inside she does. she only says those things, because she knows you can tolerate it. have you noticed how parents dont snap at their children who back chat, speak back, treat them badly, etc.
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
brother, even if on the outside she dosn't seem to appreciate it, trust me, i think on the inside she does. she only says those things, because she knows you can tolerate it. have you noticed how parents dont snap at their children who back chat, speak back, treat them badly, etc.
yes sis thats true, i actually know a mother right now whos changed the way she behaves out of fear of the way her children will behave. Audhubillah... may Allah save us from ever causing such harm to our mothers !
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My tears testify that i have a heart
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