Brace yourself, as this is going to be my largest wall of text ever :nervous:
There is no rush to respond.
I believed that Jesus was cruxified to cleanse us of our sins.
This is the very heart of the matter. First, we must understand what "sin" is. "Sin" in Koine Greek means to "miss the mark". In fact, the word isnt exclusive to religion. An archer who misses the target just "sinned". If I try to save up a million dollars by the end of the year and I fail to do so, I just "sinned". As you can see, "sin" can be applied to thousands of things outside of religion. So, in the context of Christianity, what does it mean to "sin"? This is where you will get 1 of 2 answers (either the Orthodox answer or the Catholic / Protestant answer...however, both are very similar in the end). Since I belong to the Orthodox Church, I will give you their answer.
When you, I, or anyone commits a sin, we either miss the mark that God has set for us. It could be we either fail to do what we are supposed to do, or we do something we are not supposed to do. The word has nothing to do with legeality. As stated, if you fail to get a 100% on a test, you sinned, yet you are not in any legeal trouble. You might be asking "what is the mark that God has set for us". We, to be honest, the mark is complete perfection. You may read that and say "perfection is impossible", and you would be correct.
Before I go further, I need to explain another term. "Theosis" is a term used all the time in the Orthodox Church. It means "God like". That phrase can be confusing since the Church teaches we can never be "like God". You can think of the term as "friendship". Our level of theosis refers to our level of friendship with God.
So when we sin, we loose our relationship with God because God demands perfection and will not accept anything less. Jesus dieing on the cross cleanses us of our ruined relationship (if we ask God for it...God will not force us to have a relationship). That is what Christ's death did. It heals our relationship and wipes away our imperfection.
Back to theosis. After we are forgiven, we can increase our friendship with God. Christ said the 2 greatest commandments are to love God and love your neighbor. Christ also said to help those who are in need (give to charity). Those are simple things we can do to increase our theosis.
WHy is theosis important? The afterlife is not equal for everyone. There are various degrees of happiness in the afterlife depending on your level of theosis. I will talk about the after life in great detail in a bit.
I think I should be held accountable for my own sins not someone else
Lets assume Christianity is absolutly correct for the sake of the discussion. Knowing what I just told you, you would *NEVER* want to be held accountable. Since God demands perfection, and no one is perfect, what do you think would happen if you told God you wanted to be held accountable for your own sins? How can you, on your own, restore yourself back to level of no imperfection?
So Orangeduck, could you please explain to me how it is, that if he died to cleanse me of my sins, that on the Day of Judgement, that I have to answer for my sins ( which I should, since I am the one who committed them).
Im afraid Im not exactly sure what you are asking. Can you please, if you want, rephrase your question?
And how it is that after he died for our sins, that the Christian faith says that even babies are born with sin.
Again, there are 2 answers to this question (Catholic vs Orthodox). There is some common ground between both answers however. First, we are cleansed of our sins if we ask. Since a baby cant ask for forgiveness, it is sinful (however, the answer gets much deeper than this). There is a verse in the Old Testament where Saint David talks about how his child died, and that David would see his child again in the after life. This means that God does take age into consideration.
Here is where Catholics and Orthodox differ. You can choose to accept 1 answer over the other, or you can reject them both...it doesn't matter to me.
Catholic believe people are born *WITH* sin. Orthodox believe people are born *INTO* sin. The Orthodox Church teaches that we are not born with sin, but we are born into a world that is sinful, and thus, we will be sinful by nature (just look at human history...humans from all time frames and across the entire world have been very sinful). This is why Orthodox reject the Catholic idea of "original sin"
So what I'm trying to say is, babies are not born with sin, but babies also can't ask for forgivness.
So then why did he die?
He died to cleans us of our imperfection (assuming we choose to accept it). God demands perfection, and only a perfect sacrifice is acceptable. Christ lead a perfectly sinless life and was able to be that sacrifice.
And how can Jesus and God be one and the same,
I might be misunderstanding you, but it seems to me that you are under the impression that Christianity teaches that there is a being called "God" and another being called "Christ / Jesus". If this is actually what you think (and forgive me if I did misunderstand you), then I need to clarify something. We do not believe that Jesus and God are seperate beings. Jesus *IS* God. There are not 2 beings in Heaven. God is invisible, but throughout the Old Testament, God has taken a visible and humanized form. This visible and human form of God *IS* Jesus. So Christ is simply God in the flesh.
he does not say to pray to God and myself
You are 100% correct. Christ did not say pray to God and Me. That would be against what He taught and a contradiction. There is no God and Jesus. There is only God and if you pray to God, you are praying to Jesus. And if you pray to Jesus, you are praying to God. If you worship Jesus, you are worshiping God. The New Testament records stories of people worshiping Jesus, and Jesus fully accepted their worship. Why did He accept it? Because He is God...The One True God in human form.
As I promised, I will talk about the after life. Stay tooned for my next reply :statisfie