How to make your Husband happy

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salaam,

this thread has already been done... think it was moved to the sisters section.

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wa'salaam.
 
Everyone chill out plz! This is exactly how arguments break out in marriages. So learn. Both men and women can be equally as bad as each other. It's fine to confide in someone for advice about ur problemz, but neither men or women should go around bad mouthing their partners just for the sake of gossip and attention seeking. Both parties have duties to fulfil towards each other.
 
SOUNDS LIKE slavery TO ME..........WE LIVE in 2005.......not 5 thousand years ago.........it was almost comical to read......DEMOCRACY?? FREEDOM?....WOMAN'S RIGHT'S?......HOUSE WIFE?...HOUSE HUSBAND? are they different?.......NO...OF COURSE NOT!.......wake up women and smell the coffee......or tea with milk and without sugar..incase your husband thinks your having too much sugar....ALLAH gave men brains.......AND I KNOW THIS WILL SURPRISE SOME FANATICS OUT THERE but ALLAH gave women the SAME brain..not worse not better.THE SAME.....!.......HELLOOOOOOOO.

WAKE UP......!
 
nikki said:
salaam alaikum
it is good to do so as at the feet of our spouse is Jannah- i mean this for wife or husband-
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I thought jannah is under your mother's feet. When did husband's make claim to this privilege? :p
 
Omer21 said:
Hah only if people practice what is written, on paper that sounds great however I bet 5-10% of the sisters actually practice those methods. If they did I would not hear so much bickering when ever all the guys hang out!!
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You know I bet that while you guys were out bickering about the girls the girls were probably complaining about you. Look nobody's perfect! God has made us to accomodate each other and mostly to accept each others shortcomings.
So don't think that only woman makes mistakes!
 
A Marriage is made up of two partners and in most cases many men forget this. Lets look at a example where a Man commits adultery and the women accepts this and forgives him. If she doesnt may will say "Oh my it was just a fling and he was sorry and look at her she rather break up her home" YET If a women does the same act the Man is pushed into divorcing his USED wife.

Dont get me wrong im NOT saying Adultery is right, But its an example as to how the two partners and their statues is viewed differently.

Now back to the topic as to how to make your Husband happy. AND SISTERS i been married for 3 years (may not seem that loong to you BUT it is) and one way of making a man happy and the only way is to CLOSE YOU EYES, MOUTH AND EARS. Yepp the only way is to behave like a zombie.

Islams teaching is beautiful and IF only MEN and women acted like this the WORD Divorced wouldnt even be mentioned amongst us BUT its the applying which is most difficult.
 
salam
mashallah well said sis, very true too^^
jazakllah for sharing
may allah grant us pious partners inshallah
wasalam
 
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If anyone has an article of how to keep your wife happy, I will be glad to read it;D

And it would be helpful to marry someone who has a taste for interior decorating. I'm not only talking about someone who likes to decorate-I'm talking about a brother who is not afraid to say his helpful critique!
 
Sis786 said:
Now back to the topic as to how to make your Husband happy. AND SISTERS i been married for 3 years (may not seem that loong to you BUT it is) and one way of making a man happy and the only way is to CLOSE YOU EYES, MOUTH AND EARS. Yepp the only way is to behave like a zombie.
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Is that a suggestion sis? :?
 
I never heard of men who wanted a zombie wife. I thought most men liked a good argument or a good discussion sometimes. And to talk about life in general...
 
UmmKhadi said:
I never heard of men who wanted a zombie wife. I thought most men liked a good argument or a good discussion sometimes. And to talk about life in general...
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Hmmm Sis :? Ive come to the conclusion that you aint married lol:giggling: Only Joking Sis.

Yep Men Like a GOOD ARGUMENT No doubting THAT But if they dont win (regardless of whether there right or wrong) You gonna find HIM not talking to you for a GOOD COUPLE OF DAYS! Yep you go back to being a Zombie and THEN HES HAPPY! LOL

By the way its my Third Year Anniversary Today and im thinking My Husband has forgot BUT im remaining a :X Yep Zombie!
 
I disagree. Men are not happy with zombie wives. They want someone they can interact with on every level. I know a couple where the sis doesnt have any views of her own and only replies in nods, yes, no, maybe, ok etc etc. She's never aired a view of her own about anything. He finds this extremely annoying. I'm sure the poor is thinking that he'd get more conversation out of a parrot than her.
 

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