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Greetings Eshai,
Mmm. You have many different kinds of arguments. At first they were pretty harsh and dark. They literally evoked horror in me. Now they sound a little nicer and more plausible. But at the end of the day, I feel, there are some problems with the fundamental assumptions underlying your thought.
(smile) I was in Karachi, Pakistan a little earlier this year. And at some point, someone told me: you deserve something nice. But I couldn't agree.
Because do I deserve nice clothes, nice food, nice housing, good educational and employment opportunities... more than a little street boy I saw selling ice-cream? He was a sweet little child, only about six years old, working late at night, going from car to car at a fast-food stop-off, taking orders for ice-cream. He'd get a little money for each customer he brought in.
I grew up with nice clothes, nice food, nice housing and good educational opportunities. This child obviously was not getting the anywhere near the same things as I received as a child. Did I deserve anything more than he?
As a Muslim, I don't believe that I deserve anything. Everything I have is in trust, even my body. What I have, what I earn, what I make... anything... it's not mine. It all belongs to God. I'm just holding it for some small time. But what I do with it, is part of the test I'm living. Will I grasp what I have tightly? Or will I share (wisely, of course)? Will I arrogantly believe that I am the source of my good position? Or will I humbly accept that everything I have is by my Lord's Bounty and Kindness? Will I close my eyes to the injustices of this world, or will I look for more just solutions?
Is an educational system designed to give everyone an equal opportunity? Or it is perhaps designed to teach people their place in society? Are peoples really free to choose their systems of governance, and their political leaders? Or do wealthy corporations perhaps influence or impose systems (through money or by influencing militarily strong countries, for instance) that the people do not support? Are poorer countries poor because “their” people are somehow less than “ours”? Or are there perhaps international structural reasons why these countries are poor?
Giving a little “aid” money is not a solution, I agree. Not only is this “aid” usually tied-in somehow to supporting a corporation dear to the “donor” country, but it is a drop in the bucket compared to what the “donor” country is likely gaining in benefit from the recipient country, through unjust structural practices.
Teach a person to fish? Sure. But maybe the wealthy and powerful should stop polluting his rivers and seas. Stop sending huge ships to plunder his coastal waters. Stop funding tyrants to take his fishing gear away. Stop sending troops to impose a foreign law and order... that benefits mostly foreigners (and a few well-paid local lackeys).
Because the truth is, wealthy countries often get an awful lot of their wealth from those poorer countries, either directly or indirectly.
(sigh) This is a long topic. My thought is the fruit of many years of reading and talking with people and seeing for myself the realities on the ground. I don't know where you get your examples from, but they seem a bit two-dimensional to me.
If you really care, Eshai (and perhaps you do, I don't know), rather than settling for clichés and reasons to feel comfortable with your easy life (and trust me, it is easy compared to a large majority of people on this planet), I would suggest you try looking for the beautiful in people. Try seeing their sadnesses. Their dreams. Their triumphs, however small. Try looking through their eyes for a bit.
Yes, people can be lazy. They may rip off a social security system. But look a little closer. That drunk who drinks his social security money and drowns himself in mindless TV, why is he doing that? Does he look like he's enjoying himself? Is he happy? Why not? What's his story? Is he a war vet who can't bear himself? Was he molested as a child? Did he grow up in a neglectful home with no love? Did his wife and kids die in a tragedy? There are so many possibilities... but there are real people out there with real stories. Can we help them all? No, of course not. And yes, they do need to take steps to help themselves. But the first step we can take, I believe (and we are only responsible for what we do), is to care enough to know and love these real people. To see each person as the unique and precious creation of our Creator.
From the personal to the international level, I believe, we have to be honest with ourselves. And humble before God. And loving towards our fellow humans.
Because this life is not about who can amass the prettiest piles of baubles before they die (And we will all die). It's about finding out who we really are. It's about surrendering freely to God. It's about seeking closeness to Him. It's about becoming more than we started out as. (smile) Not having more. Being more.
And realizing that, even with all the growth possible, that we are the most infinitesimal specks that have been Blessed with the chance to perhaps bathe in God's Endless Ocean of Love.
(smile) Perhaps this is gibberish to you, Eshai. And I feel I must ask you if you are interested in a relationship with God and all that it implies? Are you ready to fall into His Care and learn His Will? Are you ready to be a Muslim (in the deep and original sense of the word, of one who struggles to surrender his imperfect Self to God…and thereby find greater harmony and peace)?
Because unless you are truly willing to make the effort to surrender to His Will, I think perhaps that my words are unlikely to hold much sense for you.
May Allah, the Generous One who Creates and Sustains, Open your heart to His Call.
Mmm. You have many different kinds of arguments. At first they were pretty harsh and dark. They literally evoked horror in me. Now they sound a little nicer and more plausible. But at the end of the day, I feel, there are some problems with the fundamental assumptions underlying your thought.
(smile) I was in Karachi, Pakistan a little earlier this year. And at some point, someone told me: you deserve something nice. But I couldn't agree.
Because do I deserve nice clothes, nice food, nice housing, good educational and employment opportunities... more than a little street boy I saw selling ice-cream? He was a sweet little child, only about six years old, working late at night, going from car to car at a fast-food stop-off, taking orders for ice-cream. He'd get a little money for each customer he brought in.
I grew up with nice clothes, nice food, nice housing and good educational opportunities. This child obviously was not getting the anywhere near the same things as I received as a child. Did I deserve anything more than he?
As a Muslim, I don't believe that I deserve anything. Everything I have is in trust, even my body. What I have, what I earn, what I make... anything... it's not mine. It all belongs to God. I'm just holding it for some small time. But what I do with it, is part of the test I'm living. Will I grasp what I have tightly? Or will I share (wisely, of course)? Will I arrogantly believe that I am the source of my good position? Or will I humbly accept that everything I have is by my Lord's Bounty and Kindness? Will I close my eyes to the injustices of this world, or will I look for more just solutions?
Is an educational system designed to give everyone an equal opportunity? Or it is perhaps designed to teach people their place in society? Are peoples really free to choose their systems of governance, and their political leaders? Or do wealthy corporations perhaps influence or impose systems (through money or by influencing militarily strong countries, for instance) that the people do not support? Are poorer countries poor because “their” people are somehow less than “ours”? Or are there perhaps international structural reasons why these countries are poor?
Giving a little “aid” money is not a solution, I agree. Not only is this “aid” usually tied-in somehow to supporting a corporation dear to the “donor” country, but it is a drop in the bucket compared to what the “donor” country is likely gaining in benefit from the recipient country, through unjust structural practices.
Teach a person to fish? Sure. But maybe the wealthy and powerful should stop polluting his rivers and seas. Stop sending huge ships to plunder his coastal waters. Stop funding tyrants to take his fishing gear away. Stop sending troops to impose a foreign law and order... that benefits mostly foreigners (and a few well-paid local lackeys).
Because the truth is, wealthy countries often get an awful lot of their wealth from those poorer countries, either directly or indirectly.
(sigh) This is a long topic. My thought is the fruit of many years of reading and talking with people and seeing for myself the realities on the ground. I don't know where you get your examples from, but they seem a bit two-dimensional to me.
If you really care, Eshai (and perhaps you do, I don't know), rather than settling for clichés and reasons to feel comfortable with your easy life (and trust me, it is easy compared to a large majority of people on this planet), I would suggest you try looking for the beautiful in people. Try seeing their sadnesses. Their dreams. Their triumphs, however small. Try looking through their eyes for a bit.
Yes, people can be lazy. They may rip off a social security system. But look a little closer. That drunk who drinks his social security money and drowns himself in mindless TV, why is he doing that? Does he look like he's enjoying himself? Is he happy? Why not? What's his story? Is he a war vet who can't bear himself? Was he molested as a child? Did he grow up in a neglectful home with no love? Did his wife and kids die in a tragedy? There are so many possibilities... but there are real people out there with real stories. Can we help them all? No, of course not. And yes, they do need to take steps to help themselves. But the first step we can take, I believe (and we are only responsible for what we do), is to care enough to know and love these real people. To see each person as the unique and precious creation of our Creator.
From the personal to the international level, I believe, we have to be honest with ourselves. And humble before God. And loving towards our fellow humans.
Because this life is not about who can amass the prettiest piles of baubles before they die (And we will all die). It's about finding out who we really are. It's about surrendering freely to God. It's about seeking closeness to Him. It's about becoming more than we started out as. (smile) Not having more. Being more.
And realizing that, even with all the growth possible, that we are the most infinitesimal specks that have been Blessed with the chance to perhaps bathe in God's Endless Ocean of Love.
(smile) Perhaps this is gibberish to you, Eshai. And I feel I must ask you if you are interested in a relationship with God and all that it implies? Are you ready to fall into His Care and learn His Will? Are you ready to be a Muslim (in the deep and original sense of the word, of one who struggles to surrender his imperfect Self to God…and thereby find greater harmony and peace)?
Because unless you are truly willing to make the effort to surrender to His Will, I think perhaps that my words are unlikely to hold much sense for you.
May Allah, the Generous One who Creates and Sustains, Open your heart to His Call.