now i get mr. @
FreedomStands ......now i understand whats wrong with you! i mean why you dont seem to go well i mean mix up with the others here!
ok to make this relevant i'm going to write it in pashto.

ps. i'll write it over again in english, just to make sure u understand. i'm not offending u in anyway. i just want you to have better ties with these awesome people here!

i guess i can understand u from a pathans piont of view and i want to take full advantage of it.
zama lalagi, taso aghay 90 out of 100 pathans kay razia chi kam/kum ba pa warokay warokay khabaray ba topak ra wakhli! o ya kho pa aghay ki chi sook har khabaray ki tanz wa chai, to make it sound funny(sorry i cant translate that

maybe somthing like ...agaha khanda awaz kai..but that doesn't make sense

).
pakar day chi taso/taso ta pakar day chi, taso da di khalak/khalako pa khabaro um ghoor o kai. ahai sirf da wai chi staso alfaz da religious stuff like GOD AND HIS ATTRIBUTES da para sahih nadi. staso tolo um yo religion um yo matlab day, sirf different vocabulary istamal kawai o chi kala aghai staso vocabulary na khowahk/khwash/khwakhigi/i mean they dont like it, taso manday oooorrr bal shi, o ya kho taso sa funny or sarcastic way ki reply o kai, inorder to get a friendlier response, and they dont like it so taso ki pukhtoon rag o chat shi!.... o biya topak rawalia.
u need to accept the fact that religion is something very personal and you cant expect to get friendly replies once you say anything about it someone way of doing it...i mean interpreting...or applying it...or whatever you do to a religion
uncle ardianto ta salam! chi agha chop sho! gani pata na chi taso pi noor somra dazay koolay. olamba(thats a very insulting and widely known phrase...do u know it?) lalagi, chi yakh shi! peace ghoaray no aman sara ba kar o khabaray um kay! laka ta ba pa dazay ka no aghai ba taso ta gori kho na kana???
lala gi mata pata da chi some stupid nonsense words coming out of a 14 year old blah blah blah*all negetive words apply here* pa taso maday sa asr na kai kho biya um, sta so ba daira meherbani wi chi taso akhpal da pukhtoon rag dikhwa na ochatawai. khpal da ego lag o ghor za vai(drop it) and try to listen carefully to what others are trynna say. the problem is ....u be talking about something...they be talking about something else...u be explaining why you're right...they be telling you why you're wrong. so.... try to listen to them too.
kasam da taso kho da asli pukhtoon yo bilkul sahih example yay/yae/whatever.
translation:
my big bro, you're one of that 90 out of 100 pathans who'd charge their guns for every little small tini mimi stuff or either one of those who will put sarcasm into it just to make it sound friendlier/funny.
what u need to do is concentrate and listen to what they're trying to say. they're just trying to say they dont like/think you're words are inappropriate for religious stuff like GOD AND HIS ATTRIBUTES. u guys all have the same religion and the same meaning, only they dont like your words/vocabulary, and that either lights up a fire on you/u seem yo be on fire!, or you seem to give them a sarcastic or friendly reply, in order to get a friendlier response.....and they dont like it either way...and then....you show your real vain...the pathan one....:facepalm: and then....you charge your guns....
u need to accept the fact that religion is something very personal and you cant expect to get friendly replies once you say anything about it someone way of
doing it...i mean interpreting...or applying it...or whatever you do to a religion
i salute uncle @
ardianto for keeping silent..after everything you just said. or else i dont know how much bullets you had left...like maybe your pathan arsenal was just starting to be put to use...do take a shower so you can cool down. if you want peace, then you reply to others here with peace to! you cant just expect them to be standing there watching you, how you shoot them...dha! dha! dha!
i know lalagi some stupid nonsense words coming out of a *all negetive words,excluding a few, apply here* 14 year old wouldn't influence you/ wont have any impact...but i'd be very thankful if you dont show your phukhtun vein here.( dont worry its not only you, its all pathans..

look at how @
Hamza 
bro's friend be like you guys dont understand me(my pashto) but i can understand you!!!) please drop a little bit of your ego and try to isten to what other are saying( i know thats another problem with pathans, its at my home too for the past...i guess all the 14 years of my life..my mom and brother be shouting at eachother without listening to what the other has to say...my life has been ruined because of it...anyways lets not talk about my home..its a very broad topic).
the problem is ....u be talking about something...they be talking about something else...u be explaining why you're right...
they be telling you why you're wrong. so.... try to listen to them too.
(excuse my swearing, i just cant translate it into anything else). lalagi i swear you're a true example of pathans!
and one more thing: please dont try to put humour in when talking about something so sensitive like religion. there are other threads for it.
hope that helps....i might sound a little way to straightforward and open so i'm sorry.
anyone agrees with me???
ps. this is the fisrt time i took part in such discussions/debates/whatever u call it. dont forget to appreciate it!
