Ive tried so hard to get you back

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Assalamu Aalikum,

Ive tried so hard in the past few months to get you back but it seems that you dont want to come back to me. Before the case was that your parents would never agree to our marriage but now you yourself dont agree to marry me. Before you accepted that nothing will happen between us but atleast you did want me so we couldve worked it out together but the fact is that you no longer feel what you felt for me. I dont understand where you get the strength to stay away from me.

I just want you back so much, when you speak of whats right, i feel so much at peace, free from your worries. Your leaving me now and everything is begining to crumble down around me

Everybody look, shes leaving me, tell her to come back to me, i cant live without her.
 
I dont want a pious wife i just want her. Everybody please can you bring her to me? plz plz plz
 
She leaves me no choice but to turn up at her doorstep and take on her whole family. Its just because im so dumb, i have no education, no degrees or fancy phd's and shes so smart thats why they dont want me but i dont understand y she dosnt want me anymore. Please this isnt a joke, plz help me everybody
 
Um.. I'm going to move this to cyber counselling, in light of the fact that you are seriously asking for help.
 
No wer not engaged or anything but i want to marry her but she dosnt want me anymore, no matter how much i try to get her back she wont come back she will never come back, im jus thinkin should i go to her house and confront her family? should i continue to try and convince her to come back to me? what should i do?
 
has she told her family bout u? ask her y she doesnt wnt u?has she gt sum1 else?
 
rozeena said:
has she told her family bout u? ask her y she doesnt wnt u?has she gt sum1 else?
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Thats what i keep asking her have u found sum1else? but she says no but i have feeking that she has or atleast close to gettin close to someone sometimes she says she wishes that was the case that she found sum1else and that kills me so much
 
salaam;

pl. offer Ishthekhara prayer & Ask Allah to help u to take the right decision .

Also , pl. don't ever say that--I dont want a pious wife .

Do u know among all the wealths Allah created in this world , the best wealth for men is a pious wife ?
 
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has she told her family bout u? ask her y she doesnt wnt u?has she gt sum1 else?
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Hey im waiting for your response, no i dont think her family knows, what should i do?
 
Dosnt nobody want to advise me on what to do? why did you create the section for then?
 
Salaama Alaykum brother,

Show her that you really love her and you're willing to do anything so that you can be with her.

I don't get why she doesn't want you anymore though. Can you elaborate?

W/Salaam
 
Sister-Ameena* said:
Salaama Alaykum brother,

Show her that you really love her and you're willing to do anything so that you can be with her.

I don't get why she doesn't want you anymore though. Can you elaborate?

W/Salaam
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Elaborate? well she says she dosnt want me anymore and she dosnt want to see me anymore, she used to love me and i still love her, i just dont understand, where she draws the strength to stay away from me?

My imagination runs so wild sometimes, i cant bear her with another guy i cant bear her in another guys arms i really cant, i really cant.

What should i do? how do i forget her? she always laughs at somethings i say like im so hurt im in so much pain and i cant believe she laughs at me. I know there is something that made her change i just want to know what it is but theres no way i can find out, i cant do anything but cope with her agonizing sarcasm and the frustration of her absence. please help me everyone i dont know what to do? what the hell do i do?
 
Woah! She laughs at you? And she all of a sudden decided that she doesn't love you anymore? A little irrational to say the least. You said before that you want to talk to her parents, and I think that's a good idea. You should also talk to her as well and see where she's coming from. Even if she doesn't want to talk to you, tell her it's not far on her part and that the pain she's putting you through is more than agonizing.
 
Sister-Ameena* said:
Woah! She laughs at you? And she all of a sudden decided that she doesn't love you anymore? A little irrational to say the least. You said before that you want to talk to her parents, and I think that's a good idea. You should also talk to her as well and see where she's coming from. Even if she doesn't want to talk to you, tell her it's not far on her part and that the pain she's putting you through is more than agonizing.
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Im sorry i dont understand, what exactly do you mean by "A little irrational to say the least"
 
The fact that she just told you that she doesn't love you anymore is irrational.

Brother, it's obvious you're deeply in love with this girl..lol you're very frantic and I say, talk to her parents first and tell them what's up. Then talk to her, and ask her what made her all of a sudden not love you anymore. That makes absolutely no sense anyways, it takes a lot to give yourself away and to love someone and in a split second she decideds she doesn't. :\
 
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