Without downplaying the disgusting nature of porn, statements like above dont really help. Guys are at least openly admitting that they watch porn and derive pleasure from it. From there on the next step is to get rid of tolerance and dependance on porn.
1- They watch the very porn (assuming they are not homos) in which female pornstars act and participate with equal zeal.
What does that mean? Women are innocent? No. Guys can make a same statement that "I will never get married, but rather become a player, for marriage is not worth it as women are cheats and have baggage from past."
So such biased statements wont take us anywhere. We can sit here all day and write a whole thesis on men vs women.
2- I have had fair share of interacting and socializing and going out with females from times of my jahiliya. The very first myth that I had to discard during that time was my illusion which I had adopted from society that women are innocent beings, so pure, and so asexual. I have not seen any guys let other guys touch their privates to measure the size while socializing. On the contrary, I've been in company of women who were quite happy to talk about "measurements" of their privates with each other. I was just dumb founded but again it was my period of jahiliyah and I came to know many other "hidden" behavioral mysteries. These were not prostitutes, but well educated confident young university-going women. Again, yes, these were kaafir women but I doubt behaviors are any different among Muslim women. You only need to attend a wedding, I did attend segregated women section of Saudi weddding as a 12 year old with my mom, and if I look back, God, I do not have words to describe it.
Afterall, we must remember the story of Yusuf (as). It was a woman who attempted to seduce the young handsome prophet.
In the end, pious virgin women for pious virgin men, as Quran alludes to.
Anyways.
salaam.
p.s. as for stats "
Scientists studying the effects of pornography fell at the first hurdle - after failing to find a man who had not viewed X-rated material.
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