If you want to attain a success in both worlds then you should apply the following advice
1- Speak politely to your parents and humble yourself before them and never scold them nor express a word of disgust to them.
2- Obey your parents as long as no disobedience to Allah is involved.
3- Never frown at them nor give them any angry look.
4- Honor them and guard their reputation and their property. Never take any thing from them without their permission.
5- Do what pleases them and help them even with out their asking for your help.
6- Consult them in your own affairs and apologize to them if you faul to do so.
7- Respond to them quickly and with a smile when they call you.
8- Treat with courtesy your parents, friends and relatives during their life after their death.
9- Never argue with the, nor blame them and if they err, show them politely their error.
10- Never speak to them with loud voice and listen politely to them.
11- Help around the house, and after help to your father at his work.
12- Do not travel without their permission, and if you do, keep in touch with them.
13- Never offend them by any bad habit that you may have.
14- Never start eating before they do.
15- Never give your wife or children priority over them. Seek their pleasure, for doing so secures the pleasure of Allah.
16- Do not sit on a place higher then theirs.
17- If you maintain them, never be niggardly towards them. The way you treat them, your children treat you.
18- The most deserving of your kind ness in your mother, then your father, and know that jannah lies under the feet of mothers.
19- Never be disobedient to your parents for this in the case of misery in both worlds.
20- Ask your parents to supplicate in your favour because Allah responds to their dua for you or against you.
21- Supplicate frequently for them and ask Allah’s forgiveness for them.
22- Never cause any one to course them the prophet explained this by saying. “When a man curses another, the other would curse the means father. So be ware of this horrible sin”.
23- Remember whatever good deeds you do or accomplish, your parents will benefit from it after their death.
And remember too that the prophet said. “ You and your property belongs to your father.”
Jazak'Allah Kheir for the reminding sis. Sometimes we don't give enough attention to our parents and only see them in the morning or at dinnertime because we are too preoccupied with our own work.
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