i know it sounds stupid but in islam is it permissable for a woman to speak to a friend for advice about a personal problem involving here husband or vice-versa.
rani
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Do we wink or act playfully with the opposite gender in in real life interaction? No (I hope). So behave modestly towards the opposite gender in your posts as well.
i know it sounds stupid but in islam is it permissable for a woman to speak to a friend for advice about a personal problem involving here husband or vice-versa.
rani
um.. i guess it would depend how personal you mean, i assume things can get pretty personal between husband and wife...
Gotta say ladies, Islam does prohibit us from talking about certain issues like between husband and wife kinda issues, on the basis of it being just gossip or just cos you wanna tell someone for the heck of it...
Theres a hadeeth narrated be Aisha radhiyaAllahu anhaa that the prophet may Allah be pleased with him told her a story about women in jahiliyyah (time of ignorance) there was 10 of them and they promised eachother they would all talk about their husbands...its a long hadeeth..its in muslim and i think in bukhaari too...
the scholars use this hadeeth to prohibit women from talking about their husbands as its something that was done in the time of ignorance,
however Allah does say in the qur'aan "waasul7u khayr" and bringing together (people in dispute) is good...
so if you do have a problem, genuinley you can seek aid and advise from someone mum, big sister, close friend...,
in islam we're encouraged to ask the scholars as they will advise you according to the book of Allah and the sunnah of the prophet alayhi salaatu wassalaam, and as muslims thats where we seek our guidance from...
Allah says in the qur'aan "fas a'luu ahla dhikri in kuntum laa ta3lamuun"
then ask the people of remembrance if you do not know...
he didnt say 'divorce her', he told her to tell ismail "to change teh doorstep" when he comes home.. and ibrahim went back home and when ismail heard it, he understood the riddle, which meant 'divorce your wife and marry someone else'
and the new wife he said about her 're-inforce your doorstep', and when the new wife told ismail that, he understood the riddle which meant 'stick close 2ur wife, she's good'.
salams
ps: sorry i dont know much arabic.. i'm just guessing ur asking about that incident..
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...na3am..he did'nt sy dovorce!!..i was rushing to catch my sister whilst she was on break!!!...looks like i missed her!!
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