He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted
format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar
Well, you're courage is is endearing, mashaAllah.
You can defend him better by trying to ensure he doesn't end up in situations where people will offend him in sha Allah.
Prevention is always better than treatment.
Scimi
Oh brother don't think I'm courageous. Before he told me this I used to come up with cowardly ways of defending. After he would be insulted, I would come up to him with advice from behind to tell him without attacking the one who attacked him.
It's because I'm an extremely sensitive person. I don't know why, but I just am.
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
Defend who?
A muslim friend
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted
format_quote Originally Posted by azc
Instead of giving advice to your friend, come forward and stand before the person who insults your friend, if you can or let him face as he wishes.
I genuinely believe it is more harmful for him that I stand up for him if he doesn't want me to. When he requests for me to stand up for him, then I will do my best.
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
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