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He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

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    He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

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    Should I listen or defend him?

    Im a pathetic wimp with no strength at all. But, now he's telling me that he can take care of himself and I don't need to defend him.
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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    Well, you're courage is is endearing, mashaAllah.

    You can defend him better by trying to ensure he doesn't end up in situations where people will offend him in sha Allah.

    Prevention is always better than treatment.

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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    Well, you're courage is is endearing, mashaAllah.

    You can defend him better by trying to ensure he doesn't end up in situations where people will offend him in sha Allah.

    Prevention is always better than treatment.

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    Oh brother don't think I'm courageous. Before he told me this I used to come up with cowardly ways of defending. After he would be insulted, I would come up to him with advice from behind to tell him without attacking the one who attacked him.

    It's because I'm an extremely sensitive person. I don't know why, but I just am.
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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    Defend who?
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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam View Post
    Defend who?
    A muslim friend
    He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]



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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    Instead of giving advice to your friend, come forward and stand before the person who insults your friend, if you can or let him face as he wishes.
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    Re: He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    format_quote Originally Posted by azc View Post
    Instead of giving advice to your friend, come forward and stand before the person who insults your friend, if you can or let him face as he wishes.
    I genuinely believe it is more harmful for him that I stand up for him if he doesn't want me to. When he requests for me to stand up for him, then I will do my best.
    He doesn't want me to defend him when he gets insulted

    He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]



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