hope you're all well... well heres the problem... i am currently a teacher and where i'm situated it's an escape route from anything to do with marriage... well one of my friends overheard another friend of hers saying something like ' yes my mum saw ********** and said yes but now my sister wants to see her aswell' now her sister will be attending parents evening and i dont know what to do... should i act normal or like a freak so they get put off... i was thinking more of a disabled act... i'm really really scared ... am i over reacting? any help would be really appreciated! jazakumullahu khayran
You should just act like yourself, its your choice to accept or to decline.
And as for the onewho fears standing in front of His Lord and restrainsthe soul from impure evil desires and lusts, verily, Paradise will be his abode [79:40-41]
SubhanAllah, why would you want to act like a freak, or worse still - disabled? Allah (swt) made you the way you are so please dont mock His creation by putting on such an act. Sorry if that sounds mean but its just what I think.
Other than that, ask yourself what you're hiding from, if its a good enough proposal then whats stopping you considering or accepting it even? Just be yourself.
I had the impression that one of your students was to be married off at a young age and that you'd be meeting their parents during the parents evening... And that's why you're so freaked out.
Then I read the posts above, and somehow managed to understand your situation. And like most of the members above, I'd say a simple 'no' would suffice. If you're not prepared, say so. Acting disabled or acting like a freak are both deception. And deception = lie... Which is, needless to say, a big sin.
Last edited by The Ruler; 03-18-2009 at 09:44 PM.
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