I've been a muslim for nearly 2 years now. I wear the hijab proudly and have a good understanding of Islam. I've started to think of wear the niqab. The only problem I have is that there are not that many muslims in my town and I'll proberly be the only person wearing it.
Do you think it is a good ideafor me to wear it or not?
O Allah, I seek help from you. I seek your forgiveness. I seek your guidance. I believe in you.
I've been a muslim for nearly 2 years now. I wear the hijab proudly and have a good understanding of Islam. I've started to think of wear the niqab. The only problem I have is that there are not that many muslims in my town and I'll proberly be the only person wearing it.
Do you think it is a good ideafor me to wear it or not?
your imaan becomes stronger when you wear it sis just do it for Allah! its well worth it
I've been a muslim for nearly 2 years now. I wear the hijab proudly and have a good understanding of Islam. I've started to think of wear the niqab. The only problem I have is that there are not that many muslims in my town and I'll proberly be the only person wearing it.
Do you think it is a good ideafor me to wear it or not?
Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, my sister it is commendable that you are feeling that you are ready for the next stage in your imaan(faith) and that is to cover that which is the focus of all beauty- the face.
There is a clear difference of opinion whether it is obligatory or not and both views should be respected but the closest to the Qur'an and sunnah is clearly that niqaab should be worn and ALL the four imaams agree with this.
Imam Abu-Hanifa (Rahmatullah alaih)- the face and palms is excluded from hijaab but the condition is there should be no fear of fitna. The Hanafi Jurists have said due to the immorality of times and weakness of resistance, it is compulsory for a female to cover her face which is the
Focus of her beauty.
Imam Shaf’ie, Imam Malik and Imam Ahmed (Rahmatullah alaih) –It is not permissible for a lady to expose her face and palms whether there is danger of fitna or not.
Veil is legitimately defined as the dress that covers the whole body of the woman including her head, face, hands and feet. It should be long, loose and plain not defining her shape. Veil has been prescribed for women to block the road to sin. In short, veiling is a source of covering the face, hands, feet and other parts of the body. Allah Ta’ala states, ‘And they should draw their veils over their bosoms.’ (24:31)
‘O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (except eyes to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed.’ (33:59)
The Purpose of Veiling
The purpose of veiling is to safeguard woman from the biased looks of men and provide her a pure atmosphere at home so that she can perform her household duties properly and contribute to improve the whole society as Allah states, ‘And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the former times of ignorance.’ (33:33)
History shows that the children, who were brought up by their mothers in observance of the social values and religious obligations, later became the leaders of the nation. They admitted that the credit of their booming career goes to their mothers who bestowed on them the qualities of sincerity, faithfulness, honesty, self-reliance and social service; and encouraged them to continue their education.
Veiling gives an esteemed position to woman and protects her from sexual harassment by people. On the other hand, a woman, who displays her beauty and wears tight, short and transparent clothes, attracts men towards her. Consequently, they try to exploit her sexually using all possible techniques. Sometimes, woman also becomes weak and surrenders herself to the lust of men. Veiling provides security to woman and promotes a pure atmosphere in the society. But those who consider themselves as modern people consider it a disgrace and construe it as shackles for the woman. In comparison to the right and wrong, this world and the hereafter, paradise and hell, the observance of veiling is much smaller than that.
The rationale of veiling
Woman is Allah’s beautiful creation. On one hand, she satisfies man’s sexual desires and on the other hand, she plays a significant role in the growth of the human generations. No doubt, woman has a great attraction for a man. Due to this attraction, it is feared he will indulge in sins. Therefore, Allah has forbidden man strictly from fornication and adultery. He has also forbidden woman from exhibiting her charm. Regarding make-up and perfume, it is permissible for woman to wear them in front of her husband and closely related members of the family as Allah states, ‘They will not reveal their adornment except to their husband or their fathers, or their husband’s fathers, or their sons, or their husband’s sons, or their brothers or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their (Muslim) women.’ (24:31)
The first verse regarding veil was revealed in al-Madina when Umar ibn al-Khattaab admonished the prophet’s wife, Sawdah bint Zam’ah, while going outside without a veil. Allah Ta’ala states, ‘O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (except eyes to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed.’ (33:59)
Generally, the veiling covers the whole body including head, face, hair, bosom, hands and feet. But in the absence of men it is permissible for woman to uncover her face as narrated by Aaisha [Radhiallaahu anha], ‘Some riders passed by us while we were with Allah’s Messenger [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam] in the state of ritual consecration. When they came face to face, one of us let down her cloak (veil) from her head on her face and when they preceded us, we uncovered it.’ (Abu Dawud)
The Advantages of Veiling
The veiling system contains a number of advantages particularly in a society where the rape, sexual molestation and disrespect of woman are very common. Some of them are listed below:
1. Veiling is a protection for Muslim woman against the behaviour of the wicked;
2. It is an identify of the Muslim that distinguishes her;
3. It gives her an honoured position in the society;
4. It acts as a barrier between men and women to keep them away from sins;
5. It is a means for observing chastity of woman;
6. It awakens the fear of Allah in the heart of man and woman and saves them from falling in the abyss of evil;
7. It teaches man to respect the veiled woman, provide her protection from the curious persons and ensure the uplift of the high morals and social values in the society.
The Disadvantages of Unveiling
Due to mixing up with the non-Muslims, particularly, in the countries where the Muslims are in minority, the practice of unveiling has become a regular feature. But it is very harmful for the Muslim society. Unveiling has a number of disadvantages. Out of them, some are as follows:
1. It is a violation of the Qur’aan and Hadith;
2. It shows woman’s weakness in belief;
3. It is a cause of temptation for men and women;
4. It strips off her modesty that is an integral part of Faith as the Prophet [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam] said, ‘Modesty is part of Faith.’ (al-Bukhari)
5. It subjects her to sexual harassment;
6. It hurts her dignity and feelings and it stains her chastity;
7. It prompts woman to take part in commercial advertisements and films as a showpiece and a source of enjoyment for the viewers.
Recommendations
Here are some recommendations that must be adhered to by a veiled woman when going out. They are as follows:
Veiling is the tradition of Muslim women. Since its prescription, the prophet’s wives, daughters and other believing Muslim women have strictly observed it. Today also, the Muslim ladies must keep it up. The veiled woman must understand the rationale of veiling and fulfill its requirements.
She must avoid wearing perfume and showing her finery in any way.
She must not be encouraging while dealing with men at the time of need.
She must be harsh in voice and avoid speaking softly, because it can be misconstrued as an invitation to strangers.
She must not stamp her feet letting her anklets tinkle or any other action that calls attention towards her.
She must be careful and reserved in her motions and even in looks while walking outside.
The women who display their beauty are often subjected to sexual exploitation by immoral people.
It is a fact that the life of the world is nothing but superficiality while the actual life is the life if the Hereafter where everyone will be rewarded for their deeds. The righteous will enjoy Allah’s pleasure. All blessings will be at their disposal. While the sinners and transgressors will be doomed to punishment that cannot be imagined. The evidence from the Qur’aan and Hadith confirm that Allah’s punishment will be severe.
Therefore, it is incumbent upon them to be chaste and veiling is a must for woman. However, she can uncover her face in the presence of the people who are closely related to her. She can freely move in front of the men in her common dress that has prescribed in the pleasure and comfort of her home.
It is the face from which the brands of beauty gush forth, passions are stirred up and the lusts are excited. The woman is bound to veil her hair, face, bosom, palms and feet according to the teachings of Islam.
As a matter of fact, the charm of woman is incorporated in her personality and dress. So, Allah has ordered woman to draw cloaks and hide her beauty from the strangers and distant relatives.
i dont wear the niqab, but i would love to. i am just not allowed to due to various circumstances. i think that you iman will grow if you are able to and you start though^^ may Allah guide you
Thank for the advides and all think I sould wear it.
I text a muslim friend off mine that lived in my town for a while thinks that I shouldn't wear it as the some people in my town can be quite narsty covered muslims but some are quite nice.
I don't really know what to do but I really want wear it.
All I can do is pray about it and hope Allah will protect my from the evil in my town.
O Allah, I seek help from you. I seek your forgiveness. I seek your guidance. I believe in you.
I've been a muslim for nearly 2 years now. I wear the hijab proudly and have a good understanding of Islam. I've started to think of wear the niqab. The only problem I have is that there are not that many muslims in my town and I'll proberly be the only person wearing it.
Do you think it is a good ideafor me to wear it or not?
as far as i know, i was the only person wearing it when i stared 3 years ago. even if your are the only person wearing it, you maybe an inspiration to another sister who wants to wear it as well. i know for myself when i hear stories of sisters battling out, its an inspiration to me, even though i my live on the other side of the world
since it's not mandatory and creates too much trouble for our sisters living in non majority muslim areas I'd suggest that you don't.
also, what's the point? does so much of your faith truly depend on covering your face?
'chastity' and 'purity' are high and elevated words, but the human is human, his desires and urges are there regardless of what clothes he or others wear, if you want to be chaste and pure be so in your heart and mind, in your actions and words, donning a face veil will not make a big difference unless you believe you need it.
to me it seems many wear it to give themselves 'protection', but protection from what exactly? form people's eyes as if it is not going to draw more eyes than not?
and are people that deranged that we need to hide women behind so many flimsy pieces of cloth that a simple gust of wind would do short work of?
it is allowed of course, some say it is an obligation, and you may think in terms of rewards and good deeds when making that decision, but spare a thought or two to what those rewards are meant to achive, not what shape they took once.
the one who starts a good action and has it followed has the reward of every person that follows it!
if you wear the niqaab, then after you who ever also wears it, YOU will get that reward
If you're thinking about it then I would strongly suggest you follow through with it. Like Ibn Abdul Hakim said, if there's no one doing it, you're set to gain great rewards insha Allah.
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I wore my Niqab out for the 1st time today. I felt nervious, like the 1st time I wore hijab out. It was going well untill an old lady pocked me in the supermarket and said to me that I'm in England and I don't have have to wear it. I told her that I was a local and it was my choise to wear it. It left me wondering am I doing the right thing on wear the niqab in a town where muslims are the minoraty. Any advice?
O Allah, I seek help from you. I seek your forgiveness. I seek your guidance. I believe in you.
Sister MASHALLAH well done , please dont listen to her and be stick to the niqab and dont give up and i wish if iam strong like you to wear it im still fighting to cover all my hair even HAMDOLLAH im muslim and please make duaa for me that i will one day wear niqab like you INSHALLAH
I wore my Niqab out for the 1st time today. I felt nervious, like the 1st time I wore hijab out. It was going well untill an old lady pocked me in the supermarket and said to me that I'm in England and I don't have have to wear it. I told her that I was a local and it was my choise to wear it. It left me wondering am I doing the right thing on wear the niqab in a town where muslims are the minoraty. Any advice?
It's your choice. Forget what others think of you.
I'm doing a certificate in advocacy where I have to turn up to court and work. I wear a suit and a prayer cap. I get people glaring at me while some people give me dirty looks. I don't care.
You should not care what other people think of you.
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
If you want to, I say go for it insha'Allaah. I think it would also be a good source of motivation if you read up on what sisters that already wear the niqaab say. Check it out:
I wore my Niqab out for the 1st time today. I felt nervious, like the 1st time I wore hijab out. It was going well untill an old lady pocked me in the supermarket and said to me that I'm in England and I don't have have to wear it. I told her that I was a local and it was my choise to wear it. It left me wondering am I doing the right thing on wear the niqab in a town where muslims are the minoraty. Any advice?
I dont have advice for you sis. Just a note though, 'contextual modesty' is one of my favourite phrases in the world.
May Allah make your life easy. Islam is a way of life-life as it surrounds us. Our prophet told us to make things easier, not harder.
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In your masterpiece beautiful
You speak the unspeakable through
I love you too"
mashallah sister...by allah's grace im really happy to see the level of ur iman even though ur staying in a non-muslim state alhamdulilah..hats off to you!!
sister please stick to what ur doing insha allah..its jihad fi sabililah...
im myself a niqaabi n it was very difficult for me in the beginning as well...but alhamdulilah i stuck to it and im finding it really easy now..
someone once told me this.."for eg there are 2 students one works really hard and the other one just studies enough so tht he can pass...
obviously the one who had worked really hard will get better in return than the one who just did enough.."
the same applies here the more u do the more closer u get to allah swt and the better ur rewarded insha allah..
and the only example for us in this world is prophet (SAW) and his wives...and the prophet (SAW)'s wives used to alwayz cover their faces..
we should try our best to follow their footsteps..
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