a distant friend of mine is getting 2 know this brother and they are in the stage of telling there parents about one another.....
but this man is a lier......he fills her with all this rubbish he tells her he is serious about her.....HE TALKS BAD BEHIND HER BACK AND TALKS TO OTHER GIRLS...... but still she believes him...
he moved from america 5 yearz ago and he use to oftenly go 2 prison 4 minner things like getting in 2 fights.....
he is half somali and half spanish.....
1 time when they were meant 2 go to an islamic conference 2getha he came up with this story that his grandmother died and a week later same thing again but this time is mother.....and i know his mother or grandmother didnt die because i have seen them before.........
i tell her he is lieing but she says im jelous which is funi.....
he has crimanl records before and he lies 2 her how he is studyin at oxford university and i knw da ppl at oxford dont allow ppl with crimal records also if they r going 2 study the human body.....
he says he is studyin human body at oxford uni but that course is not at oxford uni
there is more but it is reli long
what shall i dio 2 help her
giove me some advice to give 2 her PLEASE....
thank u xxx
Is she desperate or something? If she loves him then i guess she is well stupid to still love him. This love is a game which should be put forward to 'Riki Lakes show' as it can be well dangerous. All guys say 'I love you baby' do they really mean it?!
**** baby
Just don't understand where we went wrong
I gave you my heart
I gave you my soul
I gave you...
As a matter of fact I was the one who said I love you first
It was about eight years ago, don't act like you don't know
We were sittin' at home in your mama's livin' room
Cause, we couldn't be alone
See your mama knew It was something else, she knew how I felt
Back then we were in school; and that's your favorite excuse
Growin' up I was a fool; and I can't lie I'm missing you
Listen and don't trip
I think i need a bottle with a genie in it
Here's my wish list
First one, I would create a heart changing love
Second one, I'll take yours and fill it up
Third one, but I don't need a lot of wishes cause I'll be okay if I get one
If I had one wish, we would be best friends
Love would never end, it would just begin
If I had one wish, you would be my boo
Promise to love you, trust me I'll trust you
If I had one wish, we would run away
Making love all day, have us a baby
If I had one wish, I'd make you my whole life
And you'd be my wife, make it right this time
Is this the thing thats happning to your friend? Maybe she needs to realise having such company are out of date, this love is fake and your friends needs to get a grip!
Is she desperate or something? If she loves him then i guess she is well stupid to still love him. This love is a game which should be put forward to 'Riki Lakes show' as it can be well dangerous. All guys say 'I love you baby' do they really mean it?!
**** baby
Just don't understand where we went wrong
I gave you my heart
I gave you my soul
I gave you...
As a matter of fact I was the one who said I love you first
It was about eight years ago, don't act like you don't know
We were sittin' at home in your mama's livin' room
Cause, we couldn't be alone
See your mama knew It was something else, she knew how I felt
Back then we were in school; and that's your favorite excuse
Growin' up I was a fool; and I can't lie I'm missing you
Listen and don't trip
I think i need a bottle with a genie in it
Here's my wish list
First one, I would create a heart changing love
Second one, I'll take yours and fill it up
Third one, but I don't need a lot of wishes cause I'll be okay if I get one
If I had one wish, we would be best friends
Love would never end, it would just begin
If I had one wish, you would be my boo
Promise to love you, trust me I'll trust you
If I had one wish, we would run away
Making love all day, have us a baby
If I had one wish, I'd make you my whole life
And you'd be my wife, make it right this time
Is this the thing thats happning to your friend? Maybe she needs to realise having such company are out of date, this love is fake and your friends needs to get a grip!
SHES A DISTANT FRIEND BUT HOWEVER SHE SHOULD GET A GRIP....
he has completely changed her and i dont knw y she is fallin 4 his traps
I can't help much since I've never been in you situation but maybe when you see his mother or grandmother you should point it out to your friend.
Also if you have any proof of his crimes like newspaper article or something else maybe you could show her so she can judge for herself the kind of person he really is?
I can't help much since I've never been in you situation but maybe when you see his mother or grandmother you should point it out to your friend.
Also if you have any proof of his crimes like newspaper article or something else maybe you could show her so she can judge for herself the kind of person he really is?
May Allah guide us all. Ameen.
tankz any way.....i dont know what to do she has lost the plot she tells me all these stories about him and i cant bare 2 listent 2 iot as itz all lies and when i tell her he is lieng she dont believe it...and 1 time he got my number from her fone and started ringing me saying i dont like ur friend i like u...i told HER BUT DID SHE LISTEN NO....he lied 2 her and manipulated the story sayin how i rang him....!!!!!!!!
Is he rich by any chance? Maybe your friend is scared in loosing him because i knew quiet a few people leaving there Boyfriend as they think other people will take and play chineese wispers!
Its time for your friend to face straight and let the light shine upon her face and not stay on the dull side, this may also lead to depression afterwards!
maybe a catchy question for your friend would be 'DO YOU REALLY LOVE HIM, HOW MANY TIME HAS HE SAID 'I LOVE YOU',HOW MANY TIMES HAS HE LET YOU DOWN, HOW MANY TIMES HAS HE GIVE HIS HEART TO YOU, WHEN DID HE SAY 'I LOVE YOU' FIRST??
tankz any way.....i dont know what to do she has lost the plot she tells me all these stories about him and i cant bare 2 listent 2 iot as itz all lies and when i tell her he is lieng she dont believe it...and 1 time he got my number from her fone and started ringing me saying i dont like ur friend i like u...i told HER BUT DID SHE LISTEN NO....he lied 2 her and manipulated the story sayin how i rang him....!!!!!!!!
HELP HELP HELP
Asalaamualaikum,
Oh did you by any chance record his voice when he told you he liked you and not your friend?
You've done your best ukhti I don't think you can really help your friend much other than make duaa for her Insha Allah.
why not act like a girl and be strong, don't just loose your hope of this little 'fake love'. Tell this dude and that girl to meet up somewhere along with you and face it up infront of his face. I would love to help you in all means!
Oh did you by any chance record his voice when he told you he liked you and not your friend?
You've done your best ukhti I don't think you can really help your friend much other than make duaa for her Insha Allah.
I DIDNT RECORD HIM NO BECAUSE I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED AND AMAZED WHEN THEY RANG MY PHONE...... I KNW THERE AINT MUCH I CAN DO BUT IT HURTS 4 ME 2 SHE HER UPSET SHE VUNERABLE AND NIEVE IN SOME TERMS..... I GUESS ITZ 1ST LOVE??? AS SHE WOULD CALL IT
I WANNA HELP HER AND DAT SIK MAN IS A SICK FOOL 4 LIEIN ABOUT HIS MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER'S DEATH!!!
IS THAT A NORMAL THING 2 DO NO....imagine what lies he would come up with next....????????????????:mad:
I DIDNT RECORD HIM NO BECAUSE I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED AND AMAZED WHEN THEY RANG MY PHONE...... I KNW THERE AINT MUCH I CAN DO BUT IT HURTS 4 ME 2 SHE HER UPSET SHE VUNERABLE AND NIEVE IN SOME TERMS..... I GUESS ITZ 1ST LOVE??? AS SHE WOULD CALL IT
I WANNA HELP HER AND DAT SIK MAN IS A SICK FOOL 4 LIEIN ABOUT HIS MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER'S DEATH!!!
IS THAT A NORMAL THING 2 DO NO....imagine what lies he would come up with next....????????????????:mad:
Asalaamualaikum,
Masha Allah @ your concern for your friend.
Advise your friend - ( if she's Muslim ) - to pray and maybe, if possible, take her to lectures or just simply to da Masjid?
Advise your friend - ( if she's Muslim ) - to pray and maybe, if possible, take her to lectures or just simply to da Masjid?
i have thankz... i take her 2 masjid and evertyhing and she has even become a memebr on this islamic site where she talks about her love 4 him and talks to shekihas and everything
i have thankz... i take her 2 masjid and evertyhing and she has even become a memebr on this islamic site where she talks about her love 4 him and talks to shekihas and everything
Asalaamualaikum,
Go to a sheikh, if possible, and tell him everything you know about this guy and then ask him for advice Insha Allah.
First and foremost, make dua ukhti, as dua is the weapon of the believer, second of all, make her understand that you are not going out your way to try and ruin her life, tell your friend that she is you friend and that you want to help her. I make dua to Allah (swt) that my friends inshallah will be strong muslims and happiness will fill their lives. I am sure that you want the same for your friend, thus make her understand this, and help her to realise that you want the best for her. your friend will believe you of you show her evidence, so tell her what you have posted on this forum, that he does not study at oxford uni, you cannot study biology in oxford uni. Take your friend to see his grandmother and mother etc.
If she still does not believe you then I pray she will realise sooner rather than later, and I pray this brother will stop playing these games.
First and foremost, make dua ukhti, as dua is the weapon of the believer, second of all, make her understand that you are not going out your way to try and ruin her life, tell your friend that she is you friend and that you want to help her. I make dua to Allah (swt) that my friends inshallah will be strong muslims and happiness will fill their lives. I am sure that you want the same for your friend, thus make her understand this, and help her to realise that you want the best for her. your friend will believe you of you show her evidence, so tell her what you have posted on this forum, that he does not study at oxford uni, you cannot study biology in oxford uni. Take your friend to see his grandmother and mother etc.
If she still does not believe you then I pray she will realise sooner rather than later, and I pray this brother will stop playing these games.
i knw he cant study at oxford because i want on the site and looked at all the courses u can study there i even should her but she was like 'MAYBE WE GOT THE COURSE WRONG' he has made her blind and fall 4 all his sick minded games!!!
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