× Register Login What's New! Contact us
Page 1 of 2 1 2 Last
Results 1 to 20 of 26 visibility 4162

i need some advice

  1. #1
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    i need some advice

    Report bad ads?

    asalaamalum bros and sisters

    hmm i dunno what happend to my other post that i posted :S but anyway ill just say it again.

    well last friday after the jummah prayer finished the teacher at my college was picking a random person to do kutba and lead prayer for the next friday jummah prayer and he choose me.
    i was shocked and scared lol because im not really confident speaking infront of loads of people...
    now i need to do a kutba and lead the prayer, could anyone give me some advice that could possibly give me confidenence and some duahs please oh and maybe some help on how to do the friday prayer properly and some good topics to do kutba's on

    thanks in advance
    chat Quote

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    Ummu Sufyaan's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    is in need of dua
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    rock bottom
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    7,926
    Threads
    817
    Rep Power
    144
    Rep Ratio
    72
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice


    i think you should do a khutbah that is relevant to everyone. for example, how to use up the rest of ramadan wisely or something to do with aqeedah. for example, there are some people that grave worship in some counties. im not sure if thats common in your country, or relevant to the epoeple in the country your in, but ym point is utilise the crowd. take advantage and talk about something that would benfit them as a whole. maybe the impotance of brotherhood. maybe the impotance of prayer. also make it short and sweet. dont talk for two long.

    as for the prayer, you recite:
    8- Friday Prayer

    He (sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam) would sometimes recite soorah al-Jumu'ah (62:11) in the first rak'ah and "When the hypocrites come to you" (Munaafiqoon 63:11)273 in the second, sometimes reciting "Has the story reached you of the Overwhelming?" (Ghaashiyah 88:26) instead of the latter.274 Or sometimes "he would recite "Glorify the Name of your Lord Most High" (A'laa 87:19) in the first rak'ah and "Has the story reached you" (Ghaashiyah 88:26) in the second."275

    ------
    273 Muslim & Abu Daawood. It is given in Irwaa' (345).
    274 ibid.
    275 Muslim & Abu Daawood.

    http://muttaqun.com/prayer/notes/notes09.html#fn272

    as for the manner of the jumuah prayer:
    Praise be to Allaah.

    Women do not have to pray Salaat al-Jumu’ah (Friday prayer). Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “As regards women, there is no difference (among the scholars) concerning the fact that Jumu’ah is not obligatory for them.” (Al-Mughni ma’a al-Sharh al-Kabeer, 2/151). But if a woman prays Jumu’ah in the mosque, then she should pray two rak’ahs, just like the men. Ibn Hazm (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Jumu’ah is not obligatory for one who is weak because of sickness or who has another valid excuse, or for women, but if any of these people attend Jumu’ah, they should pray two rak’ahs.” (al-Muhallaa, 5/81). So if a woman goes to the mosque and prays Jumu’ah, this is good enough, and she does not have to pray Zuhr too. And Allaah knows best.
    Source

    sorry brother, i know the the manner of the prayer isn't very detailed, but thats all i could find.
    oh yeah brother, check this video out. i know its a comedy, but there is some really good points in there for a khateeb
    chat Quote

  4. #3
    piXie's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldtimer
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    2,459
    Threads
    41
    Rep Power
    129
    Rep Ratio
    139
    Likes Ratio
    22

    Re: i need some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by nebula View Post
    well last friday after the jummah prayer finished the teacher at my college was picking a random person to do kutba and lead prayer for the next friday jummah prayer and he choose me.


    Masha'Allaah! ah, good for him

    i was shocked and scared lol because im not really confident speaking infront of loads of people...
    prepare it really really well n u'll be fine insha'Allaah

    could anyone give me some advice that could possibly give me confidenence and some duahs please oh and maybe some help on how to do the friday prayer properly and some good topics to do kutba's on
    tell u what, if u let me, i will prepare the Kutbah, give u the specific du'as u need, and also give u tips on how to do it

    My younger brother also does friday Sermon in his college, would u like me to prepare urs along with his ?
    chat Quote

  5. #4
    chacha_jalebi's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldtimer
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    Ambala Boxes :(
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    3,857
    Threads
    214
    Rep Power
    132
    Rep Ratio
    98
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    salaam

    aaah bless ya bro

    jus remem the basics like sitting btwn the two khutbahs

    theres a book selected friday sermons, that has loads of topics to talk bout

    nex week we planning to have khutba bout layla tul qadr, you can copy us lol try to base it around relevant issues

    dont make it too long or borin, bust some jokes

    and if you feel nervous jus take a piece of paper with notes on it

    good luck
    i need some advice

    Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!


    "they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"

    Surah al Baqarah v214



    SMILE
    chat Quote

  6. Report bad ads?
  7. #5
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    thanks to everyone for there advice so far...

    yeah pixie i would be really thankfull if u could do that for me

    thanks alot!

    mashallah really nice people on this forum
    Last edited by nebula; 09-30-2007 at 12:54 PM.
    chat Quote

  8. #6
    Re.TiReD's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    LI Oldtimer
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    11,129
    Threads
    378
    Rep Power
    146
    Rep Ratio
    38
    Likes Ratio
    2

    Re: i need some advice



    A little late unfortunately...

    But 'Lift up your hearts' is a collection of 30 Khutbah for friday prayer by Abdur Rasheed Siddiqui. Published by the Islamic Foundation. Great book Masha'Allah.
    i need some advice








    s a b r
    chat Quote

  9. #7
    Ummu Sufyaan's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    is in need of dua
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    rock bottom
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    7,926
    Threads
    817
    Rep Power
    144
    Rep Ratio
    72
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice


    by the way rbother, how did the khutbah go?? can you post it up??
    chat Quote

  10. #8
    ------'s Avatar
    brightness_1
    Account Disabled
    star_rate
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    11,483
    Threads
    205
    Rep Power
    0
    Rep Ratio
    1
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice



    Yeh, how did it go bro nebula?
    chat Quote

  11. #9
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by Muj4h1d4 View Post


    Yeh, how did it go bro nebula?
    salaamalakum sisters

    yeah mashallah it went really well man... like people were listening to be but they were lookin at the floor i think thats coz they were listeing (intentfully) i think thats the right word. I was really nervous when i was reading it lol i aint gonna lie but it just happend so fast it was weird i cant explain it...

    but it makes me feel proud of myself (proud in a healthy way) because im not a very confident speaker im kinda shy. Now when ever i have to do something in the future like a speech or something i can just think to myself, (hey if i done a khutbah infront of so many people then why cant i do this?) if you know what i mean.

    i would like to thank sister piXie because she prepared my khutbah for me..
    i need some advice

    Ittaqullah haythu ma kount!
    chat Quote

  12. Report bad ads?
  13. #10
    Kittygyal's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Addict
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Yard سولجا_جيال
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    10,596
    Threads
    186
    Rep Power
    129
    Rep Ratio
    14
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    Salamualikum.

    Masha'Allaah.. May Allaah guide you. Amin

    Ma'assalama
    chat Quote

  14. #11
    Maidah's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    London
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    197
    Threads
    11
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    28
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: i need some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by nebula View Post
    asalaamalum bros and sisters

    hmm i dunno what happend to my other post that i posted :S but anyway ill just say it again.

    well last friday after the jummah prayer finished the teacher at my college was picking a random person to do kutba and lead prayer for the next friday jummah prayer and he choose me.
    i was shocked and scared lol because im not really confident speaking infront of loads of people...
    now i need to do a kutba and lead the prayer, could anyone give me some advice that could possibly give me confidenence and some duahs please oh and maybe some help on how to do the friday prayer properly and some good topics to do kutba's on

    thanks in advance


    bro plz change ur pic, it's really scary......:scared:
    chat Quote

  15. #12
    Miss Palestine's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    52
    Threads
    1
    Rep Power
    102
    Rep Ratio
    14
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: i need some advice

    lolzzzz
    chat Quote

  16. #13
    Ummu Sufyaan's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    is in need of dua
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    rock bottom
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    7,926
    Threads
    817
    Rep Power
    144
    Rep Ratio
    72
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by Maidah View Post
    bro plz change ur pic, it's really scary......:scared:

    lol. yeah it is a little, isn't.
    chat Quote

  17. #14
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    sorry sis but me and the pic were ment to be heh

    it kinda looks like me in real life nahh joking
    i need some advice

    Ittaqullah haythu ma kount!
    chat Quote

  18. Report bad ads?
  19. #15
    Maidah's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    London
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    197
    Threads
    11
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    28
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: i need some advice

    ^ ur choice bro, but i aint jokin i had nightmares after watching that pic on ur display.

    Anyways if u like it then so be, im just gonna avoid looking @ that corner nd only read in the middle.
    chat Quote

  20. #16
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    format_quote Originally Posted by Maidah View Post
    ^ ur choice bro, but i aint jokin i had nightmares after watching that pic on ur display.

    Anyways if u like it then so be, im just gonna avoid looking @ that corner nd only read in the middle.

    u seriously had a nightmare coz of my pic? oh:
    i need some advice

    Ittaqullah haythu ma kount!
    chat Quote

  21. #17
    Maidah's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    London
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    197
    Threads
    11
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    28
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: i need some advice

    ^ i'm not jokin , i know it sounds weird but its true. Why else would i ask u 2 change it??

    Bt it's ok, like i said, i'll just learn 2 live wiv it nd not look @ that side.
    chat Quote

  22. #18
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    salaamalakum sis
    lol sorry but i really like the clown hehe if you have problems maybe you should move to another forum :mad:

    jkkking, u dnt need to be scared of it coz u dnt have to fear anything but Allah!! swt
    i need some advice

    Ittaqullah haythu ma kount!
    chat Quote

  23. #19
    Maidah's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    Full Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    London
    Religion
    Unspecified
    Posts
    197
    Threads
    11
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    28
    Likes Ratio
    0

    Re: i need some advice

    ^^ no need to get pissed, i didn't order u 2 change it. You do as u wish, if u really love it, u keep it. I just told what i thought of it, it's called posing an opinion. SIMPLE!
    chat Quote

  24. Report bad ads?
  25. #20
    nebula's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jun 2007
    Location
    Havering, UK
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    975
    Threads
    122
    Rep Power
    106
    Rep Ratio
    70
    Likes Ratio
    1

    Re: i need some advice

    salaamalakum

    i said jking = joking im not angry
    i need some advice

    Ittaqullah haythu ma kount!
    chat Quote


  26. Hide
Page 1 of 2 1 2 Last
Hey there! i need some advice Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. i need some advice
Sign Up

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 4
    Last Post: 09-16-2011, 02:40 AM
  2. advice
    By orange in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 03-29-2010, 03:36 PM
  3. Advice
    By Zehra786 in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 03-23-2010, 09:49 AM
  4. Replies: 10
    Last Post: 02-08-2010, 05:53 PM
  5. Replies: 38
    Last Post: 05-01-2009, 04:36 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create