girls in our family are not married n they are in their 30s, their agemates with whom the went to school are married and with children. i am 19 and i have had about 4 men proposing to me n i declined because of various reasons.am worried, is this sam kind of curse because at some point i fill i might be jus like them if not worse.
considering very basic needs, i think you should accept one of the proposal which seems good. Your parents are better to decide this as they have got a life time experience. If this age elapses, there will be no (may God forbides) proposal. 19 or 20 is very good age to get married.
Ask Allah for His help and proceed.
Congritulations from me in advance.
May Allah make you to decide good.
Masalam
I dont think its a curse sis. Age is an big issue in the south asian community, that annoys me.
It is Allah(swt) will ( qadr)..when the marriage will take place and with whom. Allah(swt) knows best. We jus need have patience and ignore the cultural values .
All i hope is for my mums happiness.Shes my light.Shes my dunya.Her tears are my weakness.Her sadness breaks my heart.She is my mirror.A mirror that keeps me alive.Without her am nothing.shes my saaya.How can i leave her.I pray to Allah(swt) to keep me with her forever inshAllah.
I don't think it's a curse. It's just the way things worked out. Perhaps for educational reasons or otherwise, they postponed marriage. Discuss this with your parents, but I don't think you should get married if you're studying or if you're feeling pressured to because of your friends around you. If you feel it's right, then do it. I wish you the best in life
...I wonder at the one who extends his right hand
To his beloved at the time of seperation and he hastens therein!
I felt weak and incapable of saying farewell when I saw him
So my heart shook his hand whilst my eye wept....
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