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    My future fiance who i intend to get married to had told me that she had a really weird dream about me and her, that dream being that i was mad at her, however she said it felt so real. Now, i would excuse this as a work of Shaytaan messing with her head, but for some reason her friend ALSO had a odd dream about me and her. This has really freaked me out as 2 people had 2 of the similar dreams about me and fiance. Is this mere coincidence or is there more to it?

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    Re: "Her friend and my fiance had a bad dream about..."

    she told her friend, so her friend dreamed it too, marriage is not exactly your average trip to the store, it's a life changing decision that's expected to generate atleast some anxiety.
    good luck
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    Re: "Her friend and my fiance had a bad dream about..."

    format_quote Originally Posted by alcurad View Post
    she told her friend, so her friend dreamed it too, marriage is not exactly your average trip to the store, it's a life changing decision that's expected to generate atleast some anxiety.
    good luck

    True say, but its weird that her friend has this dream first before she actually did.

    Is this just anxiety or is there a messege hidden within a dream?
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    Re: "Her friend and my fiance had a bad dream about..."

    ok, then her friend told her, then she had it.

    dreams don't have meaning as long as one does nor give them any, it has nothing to do with reality as such, it's only natural before such a big event.
    maybe she is not very sure what to expect from you etc, there could be dozens of reasons, perhaps you should have a conversation about both of your expectations and uncertainties, this is the best I can think of, since I've not being in a similar situation, but mainly don't worry, even it it did have some sort of mythical deeper meaning, the worst could be she is unconsciously afraid of leaving her old life and so on.
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    Re: "Her friend and my fiance had a bad dream about..."

    format_quote Originally Posted by alcurad View Post
    she told her friend, so her friend dreamed it too, marriage is not exactly your average trip to the store, it's a life changing decision that's expected to generate atleast some anxiety.
    good luck
    true, just pray to Allah and you should not discuss your dreams to everybody
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    Re: "Her friend and my fiance had a bad dream about..."

    Like Curad said, don't share bad dreams. The Prophet (PBUH) said that bad dreams remain on the feet of a bird and do not take flight until mentioned. He (saw) recommended to dry spit thrice over left shoulder after such a dream and seek refuge in Allah from accursed shaytaan. You can also get up and make two voluntary rakahs and duaa.


    Both of you should make istikhara too.
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