Asalaamualykum sister
Relationships like these are haram, so fear Allah and stop talking to him. sis if he really wants to marry you tell him to wait, or if your ready now get your family to talk to his if your both serious.
We see haram relationships like these all the time these days and its such a shame that it happens even in Muslims. I can tell you from my experience, every single person i have known trying to handle a haram relationship has eventually come to and end, and these were the people who thought they would get married and live happily ever after. Most of us have been brought up by seeing it practically everywhere; on the streets, tv, magazines etc, and let me tell you it really sucks! Its so sad to see Muslims wanting to be like the kufar. I mean non Muslim's are trying to find a way out of all their troubles by coming
to Islam while Muslims have the blessing already and are running away from it.
Say someone was giving you 1 billion just like that, would you take it? You would right?...how stupid you would be to refuse such an offer.
Well Allah is giving you the keys to paradise just like that and we refuse it.
sis, repent to Allah and promise him you will never make this mistake again that way next time you feel like calling him, there will always be a feeling in your heart that will stop you. Its not easy but don't worry Allah has promised us paradise InshaAllah, and when you get there you will find your reward with Allah. (of course being much much better)
sometimes its just lust and not love, you said you have coped before but shaytaan got you to start talking to him again, so you
can InshaAllah do it again, just this time ignore shaytaan and tell him you fear Allah!
Do we think Allah wont help us if he strive in his way? Don't worry sister, even if your not talking to him, because the decree of Allah and what he wills happens you can't go wrong.
If you tell him and he understands then he will leave you alone and you can give the halal way ago. If he doest understand sis, hes really not worth it. A true future husband would want to save his wife from the hell fire.
Make Du'a to Allah and ask Him to make a way out for you.
and don't be sad over loosing him because when you feel the sweetness of eman, trust me your love for Allah and Muhammed SAW will be enough to satisfy your heart.
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