love your mum!

**imdadur** · 03-17-2006

MOTHERS

When You Were Young

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud

When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.

When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she told you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

Those Teenage Years

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

Growing Old and Gray

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, to campus,
carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for
the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried
and told you how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You
thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did
came crashing down like thunder.

SHE IS YOUR HEART.

LOVE HER MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF. LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT
HER.. REMMBER JANNATH LIES BENEATH HER FEET

**Trine** · 03-17-2006

Very thought-provoking!!

Thank you for sharing!!

I love my Mom

Salam

**Kittygyal** · 03-17-2006

o bless that is so touchy it made me :'( only if i had a mum :'( :'(

take care

**Pure Imaan** · 03-19-2006

Asalamualaikum
Jazkhallah brother for postn that, my heart gt heavy when i was readn that, i love my mother sooooo much

**Pure Imaan** · 03-19-2006

Asalamualaikum sista islamgyal if u dnt mind me askn where is ur mother, if she has passed away then i deeply apologise and pray she enters the highest inshallah. Im sry if i hurt u when i asked u that question, u r our sista and we all love u

**Hijaabi22** · 03-20-2006

Originally Posted by imdadur

MOTHERS

When You Were Young

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons
You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping into the nearest pile of mud

When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING!"

When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window.

When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she told you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

Those Teenage Years

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

Growing Old and Gray

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, to campus,
carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying, "It's none of your business."

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying, "I don't want to be like you."

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiance and asked about your plans for
the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried
and told you how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You
thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did
came crashing down like thunder.

SHE IS YOUR HEART.

LOVE HER MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF. LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT
HER.. REMMBER JANNATH LIES BENEATH HER FEET

AAAAAAAWWWW!! DATS SO SAD!!!

MAY ALLAH(SWT) HELP US TO LEARN TO APPRECIATE OUR MOTHERS INSHAALLAH AND GRANT ALL OUR PARENTS A PLACE IN THE HIGHEST STAGE IN JANNAH INSHAALLAH. AMEEN.

**Hijaabi22** · 03-20-2006

Originally Posted by islamgyal

o bless that is so touchy it made me :'( only if i had a mum :'( :'(

take care

awwwwwww sis

**edil** · 03-20-2006

That is so true brother and so sad especially when you said when she dies I almost cried because I dont like my mom to pass away.

**Hijaabi22** · 03-20-2006

Originally Posted by Trine

Very thought-provoking!!

Thank you for sharing!!

I love my Mom

Salam

i luv my mummy 2 kay:

**Kittygyal** · 03-20-2006

Originally Posted by ------------

awwwwwww sis

i know sis tell me about it :'( :'( :'(

take care

**extinction** · 04-09-2006

When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.You thanked her by crying all the night.

02. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.You thanked her by running away when she called.

03. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

04. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.You thanked her by coloring the dinning room table.

05. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.You thanked her by looping into the nearest pile of mud.

06. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school.You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".

07. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor window.

08. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

09. When you were 9 years old, she paid for Arabic lessons.You thanked her by never even bothering to practice it.

When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer,friends,and bk and forth. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to Disney World.You thanked her by asking to ride seperately.

12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain t.v shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

15.When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car.You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation.You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus and carried your bags.You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.You thanked her by saying "It's none of you business".

21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you".

22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly.

24. When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future.You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

30. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now."

40. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

50. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

>>....... And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did, came crashing down like thunder on your heart.......

True? Partially True?Value your Mother while u still have the chance.
How much of this is true??You dont have to tell me but ask yourself...in a hadith to some affect jannah is under your mothers feet....(wa lataqullahuma uff)

**chacha_jalebi** · 05-05-2006

salaam

i dint no wer 2 put dis post cos it is a basis of islam but i wasnt sure wer 2 put it, so i put it in dis section, wen i 1st read, it bought a tear 2 me eye

check it out

Mothers

1. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all the night.

2. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.

3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

4. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons. You thanked her by coloring the dinning room table.

5. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays. You thanked her by looping into the nearest pile of mud.

6. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".

7. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor window.

8. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over you lap.

9. When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice it.

10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to program. You thanked her by asking to sit in the different row.

12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

15. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drove her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends.

20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying "It's none of you business".

21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you".

22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly.

24. When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now."

27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now." 28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did, came crashing down like thunder on your heart

IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE
THAN EVER.
AND IF SHE' S NOT,
REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE Al-Qur'an:

"We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents: in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth. The carrying of the (child) to his weaning is (a period of) thirty months. At length, when he reaches the age of full strength and attains forty years, he says, "O my Lord! Grant me that I may be grateful for Thy favour which Thou hast bestowed upon me, and upon both my parents, and that I may work righteousness such as Thou mayest approve; and be gracious to me in my issue. Truly have I turned to Thee and truly do I bow (to Thee) in Islam." Such are they from whom We shall accept the best of their deeds and pass by their ill deeds: (they shall be) among the Companions of the Garden: a promise of truth, which was made to them (in this life)". (Al-Ahqaf, 46:15,16)

Hadith:

It is narrated by Abu Hurayrah (R.A) that the Prophet (saw) said (once), "May he be humiliated . May he be humiliated. May he be humiliated!" The Companions asked him, "Messenger of Allah! Who?" He said, "He who has parents, or one of them, in their old age yet he goes to Hell (because of not serving and helping them)."(Ibn Hanbal)

**Kittygyal** · 05-05-2006

salam.
:'( :'( aw that made me cry too cause i have lost me mum for 4years now!!! :'(
w.salam

**Samira_01** · 05-21-2006

Jazakallah!..brother

**Re.TiReD** · 06-16-2006

please read...

When you were 3 years old, she gave you an ice
cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for Mosque lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to go.

When you were 10 years old she drove you all day, football to a birthday party. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back to say goodbye.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row becuase you were ashamed or embarrassed.

When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she went upstairs.

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming popular. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART and you felt really bad!!

make the most of your time together Insha'Allah, for verily, every soul shall taste death! :sister:

**Halima** · 06-16-2006

Masha'Allah such a great message to get across.

Not only the love to my mom, but grandmom, great-grandmom, great-great grandmothers and so on

Barak Allahu Feekum!