Welcome bro & have a benificial stay here inshallah
O Allah Wash away my sins with the water of snow and hail, and cleanse my heart from sin as a white garment is cleansed from filth, and put a great distance between me and my sins, as great as the distance You have made between the East and the West.”
Salamualikum.
Om.. you from brummy aswel, your my homie aswel hmpfft. Anywho welcome blud ahve fun stay active take care do dua'ah be good be nice be kindish.
ya am a MUSLIM probelm? nah? ya?
ma'assalama
hey,well if love a girl and i want to ask her out (i think she will say yes) but im not sure if i will comitte goonaa if i do go out wiv her. When im ready when im older i probaly aske her to marry me. but atm im confused on wht to do .
hey,well if love a girl and i want to ask her out (i think she will say yes) but im not sure if i will comitte goonaa if i do go out wiv her. When im ready when im older i probaly aske her to marry me. but atm im confused on wht to do .
Salamualikum.
Awww bless.
When you are committing a big sin cause in Islam it's not allowed for a person to go out with the next gender because the third person with you at that moment of time is Satan. Just be on the safe side. Nowaday's we all gotcha lower out gaze blud inshallah. Remember this life is a test we gotcha achieve our aspirational goali and enter janah inshallah.
Don't hurt allah subwhnatallah you walk towards him he will run towards you. You long time left inshallah you can get married to her once ya older just follow the sunnah now and just be good and make family happi and allah subhnwatallah ya blud?
Just flex and stay on safe side, be good. When ya older ask her to marry ya but now let her go and let it be it even if it may hurt ya to leave her but would it be allah subhwnatallah or that gyal?
that gyal won't be there for ya when you be asked questions infront ya lord on day of ressurection so just take it easy, then once grown go ta mama n papa and ask them for arragment ya?
no marriage yet, lower gaze *hard i know* but gotcha be done inshallah, hang around with good pals we all know tis hard down in brummy exspecially in Alum Rock :X
take care, and take it easy. Any mo questions then ask ya
ok but wht if im too late to aske her too marry me ??
Salamualikum.
You mean death?
well you know just focus on your education now, not long to go before you leave school ya then get married to her inshallah. Just do whats best for you and follow the rules of Islam then there's no problem ya?
ma'assalama
i have had a hard life to grow up and i just hada heart attack 2 weeks ago and i dont know if im gona live for a long tym. i have been stabbed 3 tyms too. well i want something good to come out of me life for da first tym.
i have had a hard life to grow up and i just hada heart attack 2 weeks ago and i dont know if im gona live for a long tym. i have been stabbed 3 tyms too. well i want something good to come out of me life for da first tym.
Salamualikum.
Were you in Newspapers by any chance?
am sowiee to hear that thats horried!
anywho bro i sincerly say your young a get married at this age c'mon we all want a perfect life and at but life sux thats why were still learning init, it gotcha be done one way or another ya. Have patience and just take it easy and once your about 17 or so get married to her if ya life even though i say thats still young by nowadays see people who are 13 married
Take it easy, hope Allah easy your pains. Were all getting teasting in different ways blud.
I know how ya feel, just flex
We all want sumet gud in life but we can't let that heppen unless we don't abide the rules *Sunnah*init blud agree?
and i have took drugs and ciggaettes so far for the stress and ino it is haraam
Salamualikum.
Oh marn thats bad. I know cigs kindish take ya out of stress and that but one you start on them you just mess ya life more and then end up in dull. Trust me been there done that. Still trying best to stop gagging for one. Stress can be done in other ways not only cigs and that belive me i have realised that now aswel, after taking all them cigs and drugs washectic now look at me me in pain from top ta bottom why because taking all them drugs, but still gag for 'em
But hey just look on bright side were muslims who follow? Muhammmad (P.B.u.H)
Look, i know tis hard but lets be good init?
ma'assalama
well i just started again i stoped for like 2 or 3 months now i startedted agian i wanna stop but how ??
Salamualikum.
I gotcha bounce now be back in 5mins inshallah, and will get back to this post on how i stoipped smoking inshallah. Remember after all am a revert to Islam. Was a christain before. Am sure if me can do it u can anal
ma'assalama
Salamualikum.
About smoking and that, you gotcha take it easy. Go to local Doctor take Nicotine patches, Nicotine bubble gum. You can also take injections regulary but thats too hectic tho. Just chew on something often and maybe drink more pop and drink milk which will release more energy to your bones cause when your down and feel low you tend to pull a cig or a joint out ya pocket or somet but try drinking milk which will ease the pain in your body.
How i stopped was literally when i became a muslim, i got my teacher who is my Aalimah now teaching me my rights and wrongs as a muslim. She told me a brief story about how it can effect a beliver and there act, how harmful it is to us. She even told me this body is not ours but were just looking after to it, one shall leave there soul. So why harm allah's thing that he has made us. Thats just wrong. it even states in the Qura'an aswel one shall not harm body *me not sure what verse tho*
anywho like i said take it easy, see a doctor before you get abit too tooo far. There's always hope just have trust in Allah. Do dua'ah best thing ever inshallah.
Hope it goes all well, and luck after your self aswel.
Salamualikum.
I gotcha bounce now be back in 5mins inshallah, and will get back to this post on how i stoipped smoking inshallah. Remember after all am a revert to Islam. Was a christain before. Am sure if me can do it u can anal
ma'assalama
I think you need to edit a word in there or at least mask it :X
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