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what advice would you give to a guy...

he loves his cousin (paki) and has done since he was 12, he is now 19.

she doesnt feel the same way, she has rejected him in the past. she is 17.

these two are always arguing they NEVER get on and never will. personality clash.

i know for a fact that she wont like him in that way, she sees him as a brother, and she likes some other guy who she may get married to, who is out of fam.

anyway this guy, her cousin, loves her to bits and cant move on no matter how hard he tries, he just cant forget about her and loves her to bits. he cant help but feel this way...what can he do?

he rejected other girls because he loves this girl too much....
 
I would advise him to stop being rejected, get over her, and move on with his life. Simple.
 
crayon said:
I would advise him to stop being rejected, get over her, and move on with his life. Simple.
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Very true! If a women doesnt love you, she doesnt love u! Nothing he can do... So ye best thing for him is to move on.
 
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i have this idea that people only look outside their family for marriage because they think they will find someone without faults, someone they dont know and will have fun in getting to know etc...and reject family members because they 'know them too much', not knowing that everyone has faults and people outside the family will have just have as many problem/issues as your own family.

advice to the brother, put glue in her shoes.
 
Plenty fish in the sea.

u know what I have noticed, people like to reject what constantly chases them, maybe if he stops chasing her. Ignores her for a bit, she will start chasing him. Dont ask, just watch.
 
AnonymousGender said:
Plenty fish in the sea.

u know what I have noticed, people like to reject what constantly chases them, maybe if he stops chasing her. Ignores her for a bit, she will start chasing him. Dont ask, just watch.
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Oh girls like to play hard to get.

Some guys too, but mainly girls, I can say that I'm a woman Lol. Sorry your going thru that, but really you're letting her have all the fun..
 
AnonymousGender said:
Yah :coolious:

It's totally halal ;D [(Allowed) in our religion]

You rekon ima get dun for spamming...

Hi agen =D
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Really? its aloud? thats as close as it can get tho right? I guess from a Christian background it seems very odd:rollseyes
 
INsearch said:
Really? its aloud? thats as close as it can get tho right? I guess from a Christian background it seems very odd:rollseyes
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Yah corse,

You're Christian?

So erm from a Christian perspective, who did Kaabil (Cain) marry? His sister? Nah?

We're all brothers and sisters, the children of Aadam and Hawa (eve)

But it takes two to tango so erm, yeah you need two people to get together to have off springs, we wouldn't be alive if our great great great great..parents didn't get together.

So erm nutin wrong wiv dat innay?
 
AnonymousGender said:
Yah corse,

You're Christian?

So erm from a Christian perspective, who did Kaabil (Cain) marry? His sister? Nah?

We're all brothers and sisters, the children of Aadam and Hawa (eve)

But it takes two to tango so erm, yeah you need two people to get together to have off springs, we wouldn't be alive if our great great great great..parents didn't get together.

So erm nutin wrong wiv dat innay?
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No I'm not Christian..... its just the way I was brought up (currently also)
 
Its been said before but I'll say it again. Dont chase after someody who wouldnt give you the time of day.
 
I would advise him to stop being rejected, get over her, and move on with his life. Simple.
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Its been said before but I'll say it again. Dont chase after someody who wouldnt give you the time of day.
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yep this is true, and thats what i'v told him bt he says he loves her tooooo much and cant live without her.

i need some advice to give him...any wise words....something that will make him realise theres someone out there for him whos better than her for him.
 
AnonymousGender said:
yep this is true, and thats what i'v told him bt he says he loves her tooooo much and cant live without her.

i need some advice to give him...any wise words....something that will make him realise theres someone out there for him whos better than her for him.
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Well he knows that everything happens because that is the decree, if he was to be destined with her, he will be, if not, he won't be,

Everything is qadr Allaah. He just needs a reminder, when your in love, something strange happens to you and you forget the most basic things.#

=)
 
SubhanAllah, I really wish there was one thing that worked, one cure for a hurt or broken heart. But the fact of the matter is, there isnt. The only thing that is constant and that can keep a person going is Taqwa and hope for His (swt) mercy and forgiveness.

For desiring the creation more than we desire the pleasure of the creator, is plain silly. Wisdom lies in accepting that when one thing is taken from you, if something is not meant to be, then that is the will of Allah and we try to accept it as that.
 

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