advice for a guy

Awwww unrequited love, always saddening!

Yeah as others have mentioned, he must move on.
Hard as it may be, the only way is forward and he should stop thinking about petty crushes, even if it is deeper, he should think of the entire world, it's massive, one ginormous pond for him to fish in. Surely there are more than one gold fishies :)
 
She doesn't like him that way, he should stop pestering her.
 
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what advice would you give to a guy...

he loves his cousin (paki) and has done since he was 12, he is now 19.

she doesnt feel the same way, she has rejected him in the past. she is 17.

these two are always arguing they NEVER get on and never will. personality clash.

i know for a fact that she wont like him in that way, she sees him as a brother, and she likes some other guy who she may get married to, who is out of fam.

anyway this guy, her cousin, loves her to bits and cant move on no matter how hard he tries, he just cant forget about her and loves her to bits. he cant help but feel this way...what can he do?

he rejected other girls because he loves this girl too much....
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I think you should try to tell him in a nice way that mabye shes not meant to be with him, because he will feel hurt and worthless if you tell him thats she doesn't love him the way he loves her.
Let him down gently but make him realise that there are plenty of better women out there, and Inshallah he'll get married to a pious beautiful woman.

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if da girl aint interested in him he shud find another girl cuz den she might realise wot she missed out on n cum 2 him
if she dont den he shud forget about her n remember she's only 17 n she's got ages till she wants to settle down wiv sum1
 
Anonymous2- speaking from experience it doesn't work out. I was head over heals with my cousin too. My whole world revolved around him and his around me (I think). Some stuff happened that i'm not proud of. And so as a sister i am asking you not to pursue this, but if you still cnt get her out of yr head (like me) then ask for her hand.
 

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