Asalam walakom,
I know it's not islamic but in our culture it's a honour to parents to kiss their hands every day. I have 2 older brothers and I and we didn't kiss our parents but our family does. So my question is how can I overcome my shame to kiss every day my parents hands and honour them. Advice, arguments?
I don't know but I feel so guilty because my brothers shout to my parents sometimes and burden them much. I want the opposite and I want to become a nur to my parents and not a burden. I do not know any other thing to do for them. I'm a girl and we can not become something big like a football hero or islamic scholar and I know I have a wish in my heart to become something for my parents or my children become a scholar for my parents so I can kind of honoring them.
I don't know I treat them so good as possible but I feel almost always sad that I make them not happy enough because my family niches they have children and a good job and their parents are proud of them.
I know it's not islamic but in our culture it's a honour to parents to kiss their hands every day. I have 2 older brothers and I and we didn't kiss our parents but our family does. So my question is how can I overcome my shame to kiss every day my parents hands and honour them. Advice, arguments?
I don't know but I feel so guilty because my brothers shout to my parents sometimes and burden them much. I want the opposite and I want to become a nur to my parents and not a burden. I do not know any other thing to do for them. I'm a girl and we can not become something big like a football hero or islamic scholar and I know I have a wish in my heart to become something for my parents or my children become a scholar for my parents so I can kind of honoring them.
I don't know I treat them so good as possible but I feel almost always sad that I make them not happy enough because my family niches they have children and a good job and their parents are proud of them.