Advice on teaching teenagers

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Asalamu Alaykum dear brothers and sisters, I need your advice inshalalh
Basically I wanted to ask you what topics you think teenage sisters would be most interested in, like what would they actually listen to and benefit the most from. Any advice on the kind of topics I should avoid and talk about later or topics to avoid altogether?
Also to those members who have experience, I wanted to ask how do you make a class fun? like enjoyable but also a learning expeirnece for them aswell. Bearing in mind that they're teenagers, nothing too childish inshallah

Your comments will be much appreciated!
Jazaakalahu khayr in advance.
 
How about you ask them to write down what topics are of interest to them but without putting their names on the paper, go through them yourself and decide which ones are of importance which are to be tossed out and then put them in a glass jar and have a girl pick one at random and discuss it? Also do that for fun ideas of field trips etc.

I don't know the first thing about teaching so feel free to toss that idea out..

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It is never too early to discuss ANYTHING with your child, the only thing you must be conscious of is the language that you use. If a child feels comfortable that they may ask a parent anything, then they will come to you for guidance and not their friends. But for them to feel comfortable you must be frank and open with your answers. I think it's wrong to avoid certain topics because children will sense that those topics are forbidden to speak of. A child needs guidance from a parent on EVERY aspect of life, even those that may be uncomfortable for us to talk about.

I see kids in my community who commit suicide, I see kids who turn to drugs and alcohol. I have spoken to my sons as frankly as possible about those issues. I don't want them feel like they have to find their own way, I want them to know that they can come to me or their mother for help.

Edit to add; I see you're not speaking specifically about your own children. Sorry, I misunderstood the post, I think.
 
Salam,


Teens can be difficult people to deal with and sometimes the more you try, the more they throw it back in your face. I think what you should try and do is think about what you went through as a teen, what annoyed you, what interested you. I know things are different for the teenagers in this generation but I think emotions are always around so its good to look back and think of how you felt when you were that age.

Another thing, I think girls tend to like to talk and you can make the class more enjoyable by introducing topics that everyone has an opinion on.. For e.g, fashion, relationships, bullying, and even news articles. You could also encourage debates, I used to love having debates when I was that age.
 
wa'alaykum assalam

Depends on the teenagers, their ages, personalities, backgrounds, upbringing etc. Whichever topic you choose, try to bring it to their level and language so they can relate to it. Also, i've found its good to give them responsibility and roles. I used to teach a 14 year old who really used to disrupt the rest of the class and just wouldnt study etc. I didnt know how to deal with it at first but eventually I got her to teach with me, started praising her a lot, gave her big stars on the achievement chart, asked for her advice on different topics, and I found the difference in her behaviour and progress was amazing. You wont get with shouting what you will get with encouragement.

joesixpack said:
A child needs guidance from a parent on EVERY aspect of life
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Indeed, so do we.

He (Allaah) says:

.....We have revealed to you the Book, which clarifies every matter, a guidance, a mercy.... (Chapter 16:89)
 
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Jazaakumullaahi khayr for the responses and feedback! Much appreciated
Would anyone mind sharing any (appropriate) topics that would interest teenage girls just as a starting point on where I should begin, jzk
 
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You may have to think about how to make your class creative and interesting. Usually youngsters in general don't like sitting and listening to someone talking. So you have to think of how to keep their attention through introducing practical tasks that they'll enjoy, making the class interactive (though not all children like talking), etc.
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
what are you suppose to be teaching them?
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Islam in general but the problem is that obviously this is too broad and I dont know which topic would be best to start with

Muhammad said:
:salamext:

You may have to think about how to make your class creative and interesting. Usually youngsters in general don't like sitting and listening to someone talking. So you have to think of how to keep their attention through introducing practical tasks that they'll enjoy, making the class interactive (though not all children like talking), etc.
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:wa: They're not really youngsters, min 13 or 14 i think, max 19
any examples on how to make the class interactive?
JZK
 
I normally manage to sink in my nieces attention by shouting a lot lol

"EH, THIS IS SERIOUS STUFF LISTEN! EEEH!"

she starts laughing but actually pays attention.


then you can tell them whats important, yet interesting which is the case with every topic which discusses al-akhirah in islam. Imam ghazalis remembrance of death is an AMAZINGLY gripping book, take a few pages from there and give them a taste.
 

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