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this is mainly for sisters but bro's can chip in some advice as well

how wud u react if you found out/suspect ur husband in having an affair???
 
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Salams,

God forbid, but kill him!!!
Hope als well wid u hun,
Khair
 
It would depend if I really like the man I'm married to and if I really want to live the rest of my life with him.

If I don't -which is more likely- I'll see it as a pathway to divorce and a single life. Whoo.
 
Hmm.. i think upset would be an understatement.. But then again i'm not married or anything soo i dunno. Would fundamently depend on how much i like him.
 
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This is what I would want to do if that happened to me:

Invite all his friends and family over for a meal or something, and then in front of everyone make him apologize for what he'd done!

But since we're supposed to be covering up people's sins and all, I'd probably just leave him asap
 
Proudly_Muslim said:
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Invite all his friends and family over for a meal or something, and then in front of everyone make him apologize for what he'd done!
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Adultery is very personal issue for me. Four years ago my husband and I seperated and I did some things I am not proud of imsad. It was a rough time then. I had lost my job, my faith, everything and then I find out he had been looking at pornography ever since I gave birth to our son and he had been having emotional affairs with various women. So I left him for 6 months.
 
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If it's about you sis, did you find out, or it is suspicion? Don't let yourself get worked up if it's suspicion until you're able to get the proof... And then try to get your family support?

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Then definitely the car will be touched. :skeleton:
 
if i suspected he was having an affair i wud be upset but would either try to think im silly or taking things out of propotion or on the other hand find out and spy on him which would be silly best thing would be to ask him up front his reactions will giv a person a true answer..
but if i found out he was having an affair i would feely like killing him but knowing me i would probly forgive him and give him a chance to change which may be silly

may Allah give strength and pateince to those in a situation like this and pratect other who are not in a situation like this to safe gaurd their respect and honour in the eyes of Allah Ameen
 
Ameen. I would have an affair myself..no actually I will ask the person he is having a affair with why?
 
i dnt want to kill him and go to prison or let alone go to hell..i cud have an affair as well but tht wud also mean am booking myself a one way ticket to HELL..!!

i first had sum suspicions but then i caught him red handed (i found an email frm the b****) and i called his parents and my parents and made a huge scene but he compleletly denied it and then i called his frends and i called her as well and found out she's married and got kid..!! he's still totally denying and i really dnt knowe wat to do bcos i know he's lying. anyways i had an arranged marrige so it took my some time to start loving him and i think tht love is also dissapeared now. seriousley am feeling so trapped but this situation had definatley helped me to get closer to ALLAH (swt)
 

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