I sent you a PM and I might as well write it here too for all to read
Don't worry bro you're no fool for declining and maintaining minimal interaction with them girls as that was the right sunnah thing to do
I was a bit mad at you over something when I said that you was lol; damn I didn't know I could put a spin on things and make something sound genuine when it's not!
And as I said in my PM, may Allah make you one of the 70.000!